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So for example, if you're feeling overwhelmed but one of your core values is connection, choosing to reach out to a friend, even if it's only briefly, it might not remove the stress but it can help you feel supported and help you feel more yourself within it.

So I mentioned before midlife really is a transition point because this stage of life often comes with a lot of change.

For many years we've been growing, learning, building careers, caring for others, meeting expectations and then we arrive here and things begin to shift.

If we have children they may become more independent, roles within the household and the workplace may change.

Our bodies are changing, our energy certainly feels different and sometimes there can be a sense of exhaustion or burnout.

It's that quiet wondering of where you fit now beyond the roles you've held for so long.

And so when we find ourselves asking, who am I now?

rather than seeing that as something to fear because it's very common in this stage for people to re-evaluate their priorities and their meaning.

So many people will move from externally driven goals like achievement, approval, productivity toward those intrinsic values like connection, purpose, autonomy or contribution.

And rather than seeing that as something to fear, we might gently reframe it as an invitation or an opportunity, a moment to pause and reassess, to ask ourselves, what do I want this next chapter of my life to be about?

So I want to take a few moments now, if it feels right for you and this is something you want to look at, you might take a moment to reflect on your values.

So you don't need to stop what you're doing, just let these questions sit with you.

You might begin by thinking about moments in your life where you felt most like yourself, where you felt most fulfilled, most alive.

It could be something simple, a beautiful conversation, time in nature, helping someone, were you learning something new?

And then gently ask yourself, what was present in that moment?

Why has that moment resonated for you?

Was it connection?

Was it creativity?

Feelings of calm?

That sense of growth, freedom, authenticity?