Cate

has Teresa said anything to you and I said no but I can start a group text and we can ask her you know so that's what we did and so I we sent a text in this group chat and I just said hey you know uh we would love to try to get together this summer we'd be more than willing to come to North Carolina and even meet up just for dinner one day uh and after I said that to her

she ghosts me for weeks, which this is typical of Teresa. I can message Carly and say, I can message Teresa and say, hey, how is Carly in school? Is she liking it? Not hear anything for weeks.

she ghosts me for weeks, which this is typical of Teresa. I can message Carly and say, I can message Teresa and say, hey, how is Carly in school? Is she liking it? Not hear anything for weeks.

she ghosts me for weeks, which this is typical of Teresa. I can message Carly and say, I can message Teresa and say, hey, how is Carly in school? Is she liking it? Not hear anything for weeks.

No, that always happens. And then, so days go by, a week goes by, and then the birth mom messages me, hey, has she said anything? No. So I reach out in, hey, just checking in on this, wondering if you and Brandon had the time to talk about it. And she was just like, you know, I know it's disappointing, but no, we're not planning to have a visit this year.

No, that always happens. And then, so days go by, a week goes by, and then the birth mom messages me, hey, has she said anything? No. So I reach out in, hey, just checking in on this, wondering if you and Brandon had the time to talk about it. And she was just like, you know, I know it's disappointing, but no, we're not planning to have a visit this year.

No, that always happens. And then, so days go by, a week goes by, and then the birth mom messages me, hey, has she said anything? No. So I reach out in, hey, just checking in on this, wondering if you and Brandon had the time to talk about it. And she was just like, you know, I know it's disappointing, but no, we're not planning to have a visit this year.

And I said, yeah, I said it's disappointing just because of all the kids. You know, like all the kids, like my kids are getting older. They know Carly. They know that's her sister.

And I said, yeah, I said it's disappointing just because of all the kids. You know, like all the kids, like my kids are getting older. They know Carly. They know that's her sister.

And I said, yeah, I said it's disappointing just because of all the kids. You know, like all the kids, like my kids are getting older. They know Carly. They know that's her sister.

The other birth mom's kids, same thing. They know that their brother is out there and they ask questions. I said, so it sucks that, you know, we can't even meet up just for a dinner, you know? And then Teresa was like, yeah, I understand, you know, whatever. But just know that we love and we care about you guys so much.

The other birth mom's kids, same thing. They know that their brother is out there and they ask questions. I said, so it sucks that, you know, we can't even meet up just for a dinner, you know? And then Teresa was like, yeah, I understand, you know, whatever. But just know that we love and we care about you guys so much.

The other birth mom's kids, same thing. They know that their brother is out there and they ask questions. I said, so it sucks that, you know, we can't even meet up just for a dinner, you know? And then Teresa was like, yeah, I understand, you know, whatever. But just know that we love and we care about you guys so much.

Yeah. And and then so and she got upset with me because I said, you know, it doesn't feel like love. You know, like people that I truly love and I care about that are involved in my life. I make time for those people. I even if it's just an hour, like I want to spend time with the people that I love and I care about. So she got upset with me that I said that.

Yeah. And and then so and she got upset with me because I said, you know, it doesn't feel like love. You know, like people that I truly love and I care about that are involved in my life. I make time for those people. I even if it's just an hour, like I want to spend time with the people that I love and I care about. So she got upset with me that I said that.

Yeah. And and then so and she got upset with me because I said, you know, it doesn't feel like love. You know, like people that I truly love and I care about that are involved in my life. I make time for those people. I even if it's just an hour, like I want to spend time with the people that I love and I care about. So she got upset with me that I said that.

And then you fast forward a few weeks and it was like Carly's birthday. So, of course, I'm like, hey, I texted recently. Hey, I sent Carly gifts. Please let me know if she gets them. And she answered me on that day. But even a few days after her birthday, I checked in again and it was like she never responds again. You know, weeks go by, then I check in again, no response.

And then you fast forward a few weeks and it was like Carly's birthday. So, of course, I'm like, hey, I texted recently. Hey, I sent Carly gifts. Please let me know if she gets them. And she answered me on that day. But even a few days after her birthday, I checked in again and it was like she never responds again. You know, weeks go by, then I check in again, no response.

And then you fast forward a few weeks and it was like Carly's birthday. So, of course, I'm like, hey, I texted recently. Hey, I sent Carly gifts. Please let me know if she gets them. And she answered me on that day. But even a few days after her birthday, I checked in again and it was like she never responds again. You know, weeks go by, then I check in again, no response.

And I'm like, okay, you know, what's going on?