Cate
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3,159 appearances
15 recordings
2 series
first heard Feb 2025
last heard 25 Mar
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You know? Like, I'm not that type of person.
My mom and I did have a conversation. Yeah. And she was pissed. She was pissed. And you know, my mom is very abrasive. She says hurtful things. She, you know, but then once she got all that out, she kind of got to the point of like, I'm so sorry, you know? So I let her have her moment of she's pissed and I'll fuck them. She's just very blunt about all that.
And then she turned it around and was like, I'm so sorry. You know, like, and I mean, it's, yeah, it's just, it's always something.
And you know what's so funny is like I grew up in so much chaos my whole entire life. One of my biggest dreams was like to have my own place. And it be safe and calm and nurturing. And so it's when I have chaos around, I tend to now just want to go home.
You know, I want to go home to my safe zone because I never felt safe as a kid ever.
My dad – Is he also an addict or no? No. No. My dad has always worked really hard, all the things. Of course, when I was growing up and I was younger, like a lot of my child memories are with my dad. I don't have a lot at my mom's house. All the ones being little, my moms are very traumatic, but with my dad – But they're separated. They were always – Yes. They were divorced? Yeah. Okay.
They were never married. My mom was 19. My dad was like 20 or 21 when they had me. So you grew up living with your dad most of the time? No, my mom. I lived with my mom. So why didn't you live with your dad? Because they separated when I was – before I was even one, I think. But if she wasn't stable and she was an alcoholic, was there ever an option for you to go live with your dad?
I know my mom and dad went to court when I was – Ten? Maybe a little younger than that. Yeah, eight, nine, or ten. My dad fought for a few years.
No, before he moved to Florida, yeah. But my dad, he didn't do everything right. He very much so got into a relationship with a woman who was very toxic, gave me a lot of my self-confidence issues.
She was very mean to me, emotionally abusive. I mean, there were some physical things, but not like hitting, but other.
Would tell me that I was fat and overweight and I couldn't eat certain things. This was your stepmom?
Are they still together? No. But they were married for like 11 years. Oh, that's a long time. And so I was a kid.
But I was going, yeah. And I would go to my dad's every other weekend. And my dad would pick me up from school every Wednesday. And it would be just me and him. And we would go on a lunch date or whatever.
Um, my dad is very regretful in the choices that he has made and he has apologized numerous times and you know, I forgive him for that because he has shown me actions, you know, he makes it a point to be in my life. He calls me once or twice every, every single week and we'd have, you know, we talk on the phone and, um, there was action after his, sorry.
Like there was like actions. And so I really have, you know, I've forgiven him for that. Um, are you his only child?
No.
I have a brother. Why am I just now learning this? We don't have, none of us have a relationship. It's actually really sad. Yeah. Even your little brother? No. And he was the one I was closest with. So what it is is on my mom's side, it's me, I have a sister, and my youngest brother, Nick.
Younger. So she's middle. We're four years.
I have, yeah. So on my mom's side, it's us three. It's me, my sister, and my brother. I'm the oldest, my sister's the middle, and my little brother's the youngest. On my dad's side, he had a son when he was like 16 years old. Um, he's four or five years older than me and I didn't meet him until I was like nine, eight or nine.
Um, I remember waking up one day and this kid was there and I remember him looking over a bunk bed and I was like, Oh, this is your brother. Yeah. So, like, the trauma.
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