Cate
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3,159 appearances
15 recordings
2 series
first heard Feb 2025
last heard 25 Mar
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Driving a van that started with a screwdriver. Yeah. So we were. Good old days. But yeah, so it's like, but people always ask us all the time, like, why are you not getting married? It's like, we just listen. We got engaged. I'm like, hey, I promise. I love you so much. Don't want to be with anybody else.
yeah but like what's what's the rush yeah literally deal and honestly all the stuff that we went through in the nine years i'm glad it happened while we were engaged and like i always say that yeah like it's like but people have a weird like like why you just get married it's like dude calm down yeah and how how lucky are we that we've been together with our partner for so long that we've
We're lame because we'd rather just hang out with each other. Yes. Just like chill.
I'm not ashamed of the fact that we are best friends, but I also feel like how do you not be best friends? How do you not be best friends with yourself? I wouldn't want it any other way.
Right.
And I think a hundred percent, a hundred percent of the fact that you don't settle. Right. Like if I, and I see me and her talk about all the time that we see so, so many of our friends, family members, it's like the more and more I'm seeing that there are just so unhappy. Yeah. And like, but they, it's just weird how it's like, why are you doing this to yourself?
I don't understand why you're settling. Yeah.
And then people will always say stuff like, oh, well, you're, maybe you're just too codependent and you're too enmeshed. And I'm like, bro, if this is codependent, I'm rocked. I love it. I ain't mad about it. Like whatever. But I think it's funny because people will always say stuff like, oh, well, Do things separately. And it's like, we do. Yeah, for sure. But we just prefer to do stuff together.
So what's the problem?
Would you just laugh and they're all talking about it?
So you're saying back when you had the boyfriends in high school, you didn't ever feel... It just felt like that's what you were supposed to do.
Did you feel like it was an expectation or a pressure?
You didn't really. Okay. Yeah. It makes sense. Cause that's kind of like, it's interesting cause that's the first time I've heard someone that had a story like that because my best friend, uh, Ashley, she, she, I knew she was gay before she ever came out.
Yeah. Never had boyfriends. And she, uh, and she had the thing where like she slowly started to be like, Hey, can I borrow your jeans? I'm like, yeah, finally.
And then, like, so her whole thing was, like, she always knew. She's like, I knew when I was four years old. Yeah.
Yeah. We all knew. She's obviously, she knew, but she didn't tell anybody. She'd get really mad at me when I would say like, you know, internalized homophobia is very real.
Yeah. And it's almost one of those things where it's like, I, uh, I always tell her all the time. Cause she beats herself up a lot. I'm like, listen, like, I don't think you understand the strength it took from the age of four. to have to fight that in like your whole life. Like, and she had a lot of struggles, you know, in her adult life later on.
Yeah. It was a big part of it. And when I asked her, I said, do you think, um, being, you know, closeted was a issue that led to you having all these other adult issues? And she said, absolutely. Like it was, it was the driving force of all of her trauma and everything that, that comes along with it. And it was just like, so I never heard anybody like that.
It's interesting that that was like, I didn't really know. I was like, wow.
You're saying immaturity wise.
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