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Cate & Ty Break It Down

Meeting Becky: Being Kail's friend, her coming out story & the grueling IVF journey

Wed, 26 Feb 2025

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Today, Cate & Ty finally get to sit down with Becky Hayter (@Hayter25), someone who they've known about through Kail Lowry but never actually gotten to know personally. Becky talks about her scandalous kissing photos with Kail on Teen Mom, how she never really thought she was gay until she reached college and started dating, and shares how hard the IVF journey has been with her wife Leah.(Previously recorded in 2024)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Chapter 1: Who is Becky and how does she know Kail?

45.954 - 47.094 Cate

Oh, so we only had one kid.

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47.734 - 51.935 Ty

If a kid at that point. It's been a while. It really has.

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52.256 - 53.796 Becky Hayter

I know one time you were pregnant.

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54.318 - 54.878 Ty

Oh, okay. Yeah.

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55.259 - 56.459 Becky Hayter

Yeah. So it had to be Nova.

56.699 - 58.36 Cate

Wow. Okay. So it's been a minute.

58.64 - 59.801 Becky Hayter

Yeah. I've been around for a while.

60.241 - 63.203 Cate

Yeah. I know. I'm like, what the hell happened?

64.803 - 69.446 Becky Hayter

And then you just disappeared. We would vibe really well together. Oh, for sure. Like as humans.

Chapter 2: What is the story behind Becky and Kail's rumored relationship?

838.518 - 845.486 Becky Hayter

Yeah, and I would just soak up the attention that I got. I'm the youngest of five, so I've always just loved attention at any capacity.

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846.526 - 874.336 Becky Hayter

and so I just like I played into it I never ended up dating anyone and it wasn't until my first girlfriend that I met who didn't show me any attention and I was like what is going on like why isn't this girl giving me attention and my I've always gone for you know very beautiful women very straight-coated who you would never really identify just visually as gay and

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875.497 - 876.898 Ty

You love a beautiful woman.

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876.918 - 893.895 Becky Hayter

Yeah. Yeah. And so we started dating and the moment we started dating, everything just clicked. It was like, oh, this is what you're supposed to feel like. This is what butterflies feel like. This is what sexual relations... Whatever it is feels like.

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893.916 - 899.98 Cate

So you're saying back when you had the boyfriends in high school, you didn't ever feel... It just felt like that's what you were supposed to do.

900.46 - 912.609 Becky Hayter

I went through all the phases of boyfriends and doing whatever you needed to with men. It never felt like anything other than that's what people were doing. So I just did it as well.

912.629 - 914.51 Cate

Did you feel like it was an expectation or a pressure?

914.53 - 916.932 Becky Hayter

I didn't feel pressured to do it. I just felt like...

917.952 - 939.36 Becky Hayter

why wouldn't I be doing it kind of thing or if I don't do it something's wrong with me or like no I never even like questioned myself of it not it because it didn't matter until I like when I met my girlfriend and then that's it all just clicked it was just like oh yeah there because that was this was never this was never what it was supposed to be this is how it's supposed to be. Right. Yeah.

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