Catherine Paiz
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211 appearances
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1 series
first heard May 2025
last heard May 2025
Catherine Paiz’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Like, I think that like, if people choose to keep their private, certain private things away from social media, that's beautiful. And I think that if some people choose to do it the opposite way, I think that that's beautiful too. I think that everything's meant to be the way that it's meant to be.
So there was a period we were making like we were making seven fingers a month. To me, it was like I was numb to it. Truly. It was just like, it didn't make any sense. I was going through this phase in my life where I just felt so disattached. And now I look back and think, oh my God, I would have done so much with that. I would have invested. I would have bought my mom a house, my dad a house.
I would have done this, this and that. And it's like... We just didn't have the right mentors. We didn't have the right tools. We didn't have... We had a lot of yes men around us. And we just made really bad business decisions along the way.
Oh my gosh. Yeah. There is moments where I'm like, because, you know, like big reveals and stuff, like people want to watch those. That's a great clickbait. And so, you know, It was genuine for a long time. It was like, okay, he's genuinely surprising me. He's genuinely proposing to me.
It was like, wow, this is so crazy that we can capture such a big milestone, big moment, and we can actually look back on it too. It's filmed. But then also... having so many eyes on you, I didn't know back in the day, back in the time, now I know, but I didn't know that I was not protecting myself.
But the moment that I realized where I don't know if this is real or not real, I don't know, that must have happened genuinely i there was like a big moment for me it was when my second daughter was born um i just felt this disconnection and it was like i actually don't want to film this but like i know that people are waiting for it because they've invested so much and
There was this fine line of like, do I put my foot down and just like live in the moment or do I also? So and then he was holding the camera, so it made it easier. But then it was like, is he here, though? Is he present? So that was like a big moment for me.
Oh, yeah. Yeah.
I was just like really numb and empty at the time.
Right.
There might have been moments where we kind of talked about, but to be honest with you, not really. Like, I just, we didn't have that communication within ourselves. Yeah.
Yeah, there was moments where you know, i'd see some money coming out and it was you know to pay this pay that and it was like I didn't feel like I was having that like wife like that partner that husband and wife conversation about our finances And it would be heartbreaking to look at the bank because I was very well aware of what was in there And it's like where did that go?
Like what what's happening? or like, um One thing as well, it's like little things that, you know, things that I would never think to pay for, like a private jet, for instance, you know, that personally for me wasn't something I would ever do. Like if I had never met him, I would have never been on a private jet today.
I'm like, probably never, you know, because I'm thinking like, I'll just take a regular flight.
Oh, you know, I'm sorry. You know, I didn't want you to worry. And... I don't know. I just feel like, you know, I get it, but it's like, that's not what a marriage is about. A marriage is about talking about these very deep things that really affect like our children and our future. And like, you know, when you make certain investments, the goal is to make, at least make your money back, you know?
And so that was really stressful for me. That really caused a lot of stress and strain in our relationship.
So leading up to that moment, um, I felt like there was a lot of things that I was losing control over. My family, my relationship, our career, everything. There was a lot of narratives and things that were being said. I was really strong. I was like, I'm going to be strong. I'm going to keep fighting. We have our home. We have our home. Our kids are happy. They're healthy. We're healthy.
Everything's fine. One day I wake up and I get a phone call. It's my father-in-law. He said, Catherine, the house is under foreclosures all over the news. I'm like, what do you mean? What do you mean? He goes, well, your loan ended and no one's going to, it's a jumbo loan. No one's going to accept you. You don't have the certificate of occupancy.
But I'm like, but I've been paying the mortgage every month for three years. Everything, what do I need to do? What do I need to pay? I'll save it. What do we need? There's nothing you can do. It's under foreclosure. It's gone. You have 30 days to move out.
yeah and it was heartbreaking I cried an ocean and it's crazy because out of all the things that were happening in that era that was the thing that really broke me because I was looking for a home my whole life it's like I just wanted to feel like I'm at home can you explain to me because I'm sure people are really confused and want a little bit of clarity on like there was so much going on behind the scenes obviously that people didn't know like
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