Cathy Adams
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328 appearances
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first heard Jul 2021
last heard Jul 2021
Cathy Adams’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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The conversations that need to be had.
There's no typical, but I would say that it's I would just call that the first conversation.
Because I would say if you were to really go back and live with Todd and I over the past, because we've been married 19 years, Todd.
I think t this year was our 19th anniversary, is that we've known each other a very long time.
And I would tell you that our first vulnerable conversations, like the one you're describing, was messy and unresolved, but it started.
It's like you kick that door open a little bit.
Like the worst case scenario is you say nothing and you just hold it all inside and then have these resentments that build up.
We all know how that goes, right?
We all know what the end of that story is, is when we're holding on to resentment.
So, and you know, it's like this modulation.
Like, I'm picturing myself in those early conversations.
I
I feel like I was very vulnerable and I was saying what I needed to say, but I may maybe my tone was a little harsh initially, or I was very expecting of him to understand me, but I wasn't open to him.
And it was this practice of how you have a conversation with someone you love.
And so and so Todd, you
Well, and you know, one thing that our listeners have shared with us, Debbie, that they were surprised at is that you needed to have a conversation more than once.
That they were like, but I had that conversation.
And I'm like, but it didn't resolve.
So you have it again and you have it again.
There are conversations that Todd and I have been having for 20 years.
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