Chachi

For me, it's less than.

I am turned on by seeing him with someone else if it's a guest star situation.

If it's his own thing,

It's not that I'm not turned on, but I'm not sexually charged by hearing about it.

I'm like, that's your experience.

And so I don't necessarily need all of the bells and whistles and details about it, where my partner would love to know literally everything.

Absolutely.

And it was interesting because recently there was a Bader event thing that he and another one of our friends who got kind of, they're both into that stuff.

So they went not together, but they were at the same event.

And then I was in LA and I ended up having dinner with that guy's husband.

yeah it wasn't anything sexual we just went to a show at dinner and when they were my partner and him were at the event they were like oh i hope they go fuck tonight and then we could hear about it later and jerk off to it and he told me that and i was like oh that's so weird i didn't even think of something like that you know what i mean but like it's like that's his thing it's like the here like the storytelling

Absolutely.

Yeah.

Everyone's.

I mean, look, everyone's wired differently, but there's also like this stuff changes and it's flows and it's, I, I'm, I'm into things that I probably, I know I wasn't into when I was younger.

And so there's a lot of growth that happens and fluidity with it.

And that's why I go going back to the start of this conversation.

It's like,

It's hard to imagine one person for one person forever and not, you know what I mean?

I know people do it, but like, to me, it's just like, that's so wild because there's no way that you're always going to be on the same level with the same desires and, and, and, and thought process and turn ons.