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Chachi

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
341 total appearances

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So it's oral, it's beta, community.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It's all the sides, right?

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So that terminology, term, side, is kind of like what we were talking about.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It's the evolution of language.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

we started this conversation.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I would never have called myself queer in the 90s or even in the 2000s.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

It's like, this is something that I... Exactly.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I was just a gay man, period.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So it's weird to sometimes think of how things get reclaimed or changed.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Yeah, so I would say gay.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I'm not opposed to that still, that term.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

But I consider myself queer because I'm also open to more.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So like, if you're a female transitioning into a male, I'm attracted to trans men.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

I'm attracted to men in general.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So if there's a hot trans man that is in front of me, I'm going to be sexually attracted to them.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So the terminology changes.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

For me, in my head.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

Oh, that's a good question.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So for him, there is an element of that.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1437 - Chachi Is Queer, in an Open Relationship with a Man & Thinks Labels are Super Important

So of him being turned on by me being with someone else.