Charles Duhigg
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1,650 appearances
6 recordings
6 series
first heard Jan 2026
last heard 1 Jul
Charles Duhigg’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Or do you want to be hugged?
And those are the three kinds of conversations.
And it just feels.
Yeah.
Yeah, exactly.
Everyone wants my attention.
I'm too popular.
And I find that it's also when somebody asks you what you want out of a conversation, it feels really good.
Like I might come home and sometimes I come home and I'm like upset about work and I'm complaining to my wife and she'll say, okay, do you want me to solve this with you or do you want me just to listen?
Right.
So you can vent or whatever.
Yeah.
And until that moment, I didn't know what I wanted.
But when she asked the question, I'm like, oh no, I want you to listen.
Like I don't want a solution.
Yeah.
Oftentimes people hear a negotiation and they think of a negotiation where the goal is to win.
A quiet negotiation is very, very different.
The goal is not to win.
The goal is simply to understand what the other person wants.
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