Charles Schwartz
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Like, glazers don't whine.
Clearly, that is not part of my tribe.
Because my tribe, we have mastered that part.
So when you're doing that and you're going through it, how do you hold people accountable to their values?
We're talking about carrot versus stick.
How do we get someone to say, okay, we know that in your situation, the glazers, your family, we don't lie.
But someone comes up and says, does this dress make me look fat?
Is the response, no, the dress is fine.
Your ass makes you look fat.
How do you handle those?
So now you're yielding honesty for efficiency.
I'm with you.
But now glazers lie, though.
But in that, so in that situation, how do you do that?
Right.
How do you handle the, okay.
Also, parenting is not, is, is leadership, not ownership.
You don't own your kids.
Your goal is to help guide them to be whatever they're going to be.
As long as they meet some, you know, don't, don't hurt people.