Charlotte White

So true.

Have you guys ever had a confrontational friendship breakup where it's like, we can't do this anymore?

A romantic relationship breakup.

platforms and yeah it wasn't like a totally horrible ending to a friendship but god they're so much harder than i feel like romantic ones yeah and sometimes it's like we actually are different like maybe we just don't align right now in our lives like where we're at yeah i've never had a hard like we should break up kind of friendship breakup conversation i think i've just drifted from people either consciously or subconsciously yeah yourself i think i'm similar i've either drifted naturally

I've tried to drift.

And then the outcome of trying to drift has been successful drifting or the person has confronted me about, hey, why are you being so weird?

And I'm like, oh, that was when I was younger.

I tried to drift from people where the values just weren't connecting.

And then I'd gotten...

Pulled up on my ghosting, which in hindsight, probably could have handled that better.

But also sometimes a ghost is appropriate.

Especially if the person that you're dealing with is like difficult and has proven to be difficult.

It's like, well, I'm just going to hit a wall here anyway.

Exactly.

And at the time, I did feel like it was a lost cause.

Whether or not it was, it's up to interpretation.

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