Chris Balme
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first heard Mar 2023
last heard Mar 2023
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So sometimes it's engineering an invitation that there's another kid or another group that you think they would enjoy and is positive.
Could they be invited peer-to-peer to be part of that?
Or could you just arrange that they happen to be side by side working on something with those students or in that project or that other activity?
The aim is to have them hooked by the desire to be around
a certain group of peers rather than following our requests, which would be too easy to resist.
Yes.
Oh, such a good question.
So as I understand individuation, it it's a process that begins around puberty where most kids start to
Seek their identity outside of their family.
It can be incredibly hard for parents.
It can feel like a rejection.
Parents often go through a form of grief.
But I think a different way to see it is that they have downloaded so much from you in ways that they aren't even conscious of, of your core views of life, yourself, the world, what's important.
And now they're seeing that the world is way more complicated and interesting than they had known before, just because their brain is now opening them to the social world.
And they want to figure out what is going on over there and who am I around these people.
So it's about primarily peer-driven, but it can also be other adults.
I think sometimes we parents miss that part.
It it doesn't mean a blanket rejection of all adults.
It means that they're looking for different sources of influence.
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