Clare McKenna

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3,673 appearances 32 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 9 Aug

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Alive and Kicking with Clare McKenna · The top three reasons why couples fight · 19 Jul 2026 podcast

And I suppose and this is something that has been hard won for me and I don't get right all the time, is that when it comes to Rouse or these kind of conversations or chats, it's not about being right or proving you're right.

It's about fixing whatever it is between the two of you together.

Yeah.

So I'm getting from what you're saying, it's never the dishwasher, it's never the being late, it's never going to the pub after work and not calling.

It's what's underneath it.

So they're always what's underneath the rags.

I doubt it arrives there that quickly though, because the dishwasher will still be full.

There will still be demands on time.

People will still run late.

So is there a kind of a two way here that the other person needs to hear it, but the other person needs to understand why they react that way too?

Yeah, that's been a huge learning for me too.

There's oftentimes I come, you know, all to the table with my point.

Yeah.

And then when I get on his point of view back.

Then I'm like, Oh, well that actually makes sense now.

And it kinda takes the sting out of it.

But it takes a while to go from the shouting about the dishwasher to the be talking about.

Yeah.

And that you want the end goal is that things are good again.

Back to the harmony.

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