Clayton Echard

Like I am just laying in my bed, staring up at the ceiling.

Like I can't even I can I'm doing my job.

I work from home, the bare minimum, and then the rest of the day I just stare up at the ceiling and wonder how bad my life is going to be.

If this woman actually is pregnant, she's going to destroy my life.

Co-parenting with this woman, she's a monster.

And so I was staring at the ceiling and I was like, Dad, I can't function.

And he said, well, Clayton, if she is in fact pregnant, your life will not change for another eight months.

So, you know, your month end, but all you can do is live in the present moment right now.

You never know what could happen.

She could decide she actually doesn't want to move forward with this.

If she is actually pregnant, she could have an abortion.

She could have a miscarriage, you know, or she could have the child.

But whatever the scenario is, it's not truth.

And it's not something you have to respond to until, you know, eight more months from now when she delivers the baby.

And then at that point, it's real.

And at that point, you can respond immediately.

to whatever the actual scenario is.

But you sitting here looking up at the ceiling and thinking worst case scenario, it may never present.

And that was incredible advice because he was right.

Because he said that a month in before we were able to obviously disprove completely and before she even went public.