Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
or tries to play it cool, make her wonder if I like her, fuck that.
My number one dating rule, other than be authentic, my number one flirting rule is clarity.
Be clear.
I never teach my clients to pretend to be mysterious.
I wouldn't know the first thing about pretending to be somebody I'm not.
I'm not mysterious.
You're not mysterious.
If you're James Bond, fine.
Maybe he's mysterious.
But my first rule of showing romantic interest is clarity.
Let her know that you like her.
Clear romantic interest.
And brother, this woman knows.
Nom, nom, nom.
And by the way, dumb dating mistakes like this, they're awkward.
But they're real.
They're human.
And because of that, it can actually create more sparks than it would if you were straining to be perfect.
Be perfectly imperfect.
Or at least allow yourself to be perfectly imperfect.