Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You commit to the move.
So if commitment on a scale of 10 out of 10 would be me just looking her in the eye saying, hey, I like you.
You're charming.
Would you like to go on a date with me?
That would be a 10 out of 10 commitment.
What I did with the business card is a two out of 10.
And that just does not work with women.
It just reads as low in confidence.
So anyway, that's a great lesson for you.
I hope to learn.
Whatever move you're going to make, make it.
Commit to it all the way.
Doesn't mean it'll always work, but if you do it half-heartedly, it never works.
This is true in life beyond dating moves, I think.
If you go on a job interview, you got to really commit to the interview.
You got to really commit to saying, I want this job.
Here's why you should hire me.
As opposed to, oh, I don't know.
You know, it'd be nice to work here, I guess.
But I don't know.