Constance (Connie) Hockaday

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249 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 24 Jul

Constance (Connie) Hockaday’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And the game is very much like, OK, you're going to die.

You're all we're going to die and you could die tomorrow.

What is one thing that you need to do before you die?

What is one thing that you desire before you die?

And once you could answer that question, what second thing that you want, need, desire before you die?

And the idea of the threes is that if you are singularly focused in this life and something gets in your way,

You're sort of, we're thwarted, right?

And if it's two things, then you create this polarity or this binary that is unresolvable.

And so if you have sort of three guideposts, three desires in this life that are pulling you forward,

then you're not stuck in that binary or in that singular thinking.

And so we use the three deepest desires as like a calibration tool.

It's a decision-making tool.

It is a way of balancing and orienting oneself.

And it's a practice.

And so when Betsy's saying, it doesn't matter what you say, when you come back tomorrow and ask yourself this again,

you may be able to find a deeper and deeper feeling of an articulation of desire.

And so it's a lifetime practice.

And then you realize like, oh, wait, I think something has changed in me.

And you can reevaluate like, what has changed?

How has my desire shifted?

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