Courtney Miller

I can see that. Hearing those comments, I see where that comes from. I don't know if you guys have seen this on TikTok where there was this one boyfriend who had like a cheat sheet for his girlfriend and it was like her favorite color, her favorite, like her Taco Bell order, like all these specific things that he just wants to keep on hand.

I can see that. Hearing those comments, I see where that comes from. I don't know if you guys have seen this on TikTok where there was this one boyfriend who had like a cheat sheet for his girlfriend and it was like her favorite color, her favorite, like her Taco Bell order, like all these specific things that he just wants to keep on hand.

And it's like, I'm sure he'll eventually actually like remember those or already does, but it is sweet. Like, you know, that's what this partner's, you know, in competition with. That's what's up. You know, and so I get that feeling she's having.

And it's like, I'm sure he'll eventually actually like remember those or already does, but it is sweet. Like, you know, that's what this partner's, you know, in competition with. That's what's up. You know, and so I get that feeling she's having.

Yeah, we've got a lot of those happening. And getting her an extra pair. I mean, because here's the thing. She... I don't like to... I'm not really a fan of when people ask me what I want. I don't... I'm not really a fan of, like, I want this exact thing. Please get it for me. Like, I will just get it for myself at that point. I will get just as much joy getting it for myself.

Yeah, we've got a lot of those happening. And getting her an extra pair. I mean, because here's the thing. She... I don't like to... I'm not really a fan of when people ask me what I want. I don't... I'm not really a fan of, like, I want this exact thing. Please get it for me. Like, I will just get it for myself at that point. I will get just as much joy getting it for myself.

So she went as far as to go, please, like, will you get me earrings for Valentine's Day? Like, asking... literally handing to him what she wanted, going as far as sending links and websites of what he wanted. And it's also like, when we're playing a video game and we're stuck in a spot, we go and look it up. Go look at your partner's Instagram, dude. Look at pictures of her.

So she went as far as to go, please, like, will you get me earrings for Valentine's Day? Like, asking... literally handing to him what she wanted, going as far as sending links and websites of what he wanted. And it's also like, when we're playing a video game and we're stuck in a spot, we go and look it up. Go look at your partner's Instagram, dude. Look at pictures of her.

Look at the earrings she's wearing. You don't have to depend on memory. If you're in the same room as her while you're online shopping, use the cheat codes that you have that are your eyes.

Look at the earrings she's wearing. You don't have to depend on memory. If you're in the same room as her while you're online shopping, use the cheat codes that you have that are your eyes.

No, especially when you ask. I think it's, hey, at least he did it. But again, the bar is so low sometimes.

No, especially when you ask. I think it's, hey, at least he did it. But again, the bar is so low sometimes.

I'm glad they are, I'm always so curious when people say we moved past it. It doesn't sound like, that doesn't sound like.

I'm glad they are, I'm always so curious when people say we moved past it. It doesn't sound like, that doesn't sound like.

We grew from it. We're stronger from it. We talked about it. It's all good. It's just we moved past it.

We grew from it. We're stronger from it. We talked about it. It's all good. It's just we moved past it.

Yeah, like constantly negotiating your own needs with, yeah.

Yeah, like constantly negotiating your own needs with, yeah.

This is so different than what I thought it was gonna be.

This is so different than what I thought it was gonna be.