Crystal Kung Minkoff

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The Viall Files · E939 Ask Nick - Revenge Dating · 26 May 2025 podcast

you know someone who thought that like one of those relationships would end in marriage and it just didn't work out you know the way I planned so I don't I hate that like I'm in this position where I have to be like hi nice to meet you do you want to have kids in the next three to five years like I don't want it to be that way but like I have made the choice to prioritize this.

I'm very specific about what I want. And like I keep saying, I don't want like a sperm donor. That's not what I'm looking for. If that were the case, I could have had a kid a long time ago. Like, not a problem. Is that something you're open to?

I am, but I can't afford it. Like, I couldn't afford it living where I live. I can barely... take care of myself right now.

I work very hard.

It is. So, would I do it at some point? Like, I've considered it. Obviously, when I froze my eggs, I was like, there's a possibility that I had the conversation with my boyfriend at the time, like, would you make embryos with me? And he didn't want to. And so I was like,

All right, well, I guess, you know, then I'm really just going to have to like wing this, you know, and hope that some something works out along the way. But I don't know. I just.

Okay. So actually I went on a date recently with a guy who's 50. Okay. And he's like super nice. And, um, Just a gentleman, I think, in a way that is different than the guys that are normally in the dating pool who really just don't make any effort to make you feel special or any of that. So he's been really lovely, but he's also 50 years old and divorced and has like four kids.

And I'm like at the point where I know I have to have the conversation about what I want. And whether that's something he's open to in order to kind of determine whether it's worth me continuing to see him. But I hate to put that pressure on somebody because I also understand that.

Ich weiß. Ja, vertraue mir, ich habe sie alle durchgeweitet, Nick. Und die Realität ist, ich habe so viel Arbeit auf mich selbst gemacht. Ich habe gelernt, wirklich

feel more confident in myself over these last few years than I ever did and I'm so proud of so many things in my life and I'm like the people who know me are like you know you have it all together like why why can't you just find a man you know like I don't understand why you're still single you know and so that sucks because I don't know I'm like is it me am I like

picking the wrong people or I'm just not doing the right things to keep these relationships going.

And no offense, you... married a 25-year-old, you know? So, like, that's what I'm up against, you know? Because now I'm competing with 25-year-olds out here. I know that I bring things to the table that 25-year-olds don't in terms of, like, I'm self-sufficient, I'm independent, I have a great job. Like, I don't need anybody to take care of me.

But I want somebody who, like, just wants to do things for me. I'm so used to, like, my whole life having to take care of myself. Which is why I'm so good at being so independent. But I just want someone who wants to take care of me.

So he is away right now. He went to Europe and he's been like sending me pictures and like saying, I wish you could see this. And just again, like really nice, sweet stuff. So I am going, I'm sure, to hear from him once he gets back. Und lustig genug, seit ich dich geschrieben habe, habe ich ein paar Männern gekommen. Ich denke, sie kommen in Spuren.

Ich habe meinen Freund überzeugt, mit mir zu einem Singles-Event zu gehen. Und ich meine, es war schrecklich, dass es 95% Frauen waren. And the men that were there were just not great, which was just a reinforcement of my feeling that there's like nothing in the dating pool for me. But there was one guy who I had recognized, like I've definitely seen him around before.

And we started talking and again, like my gut instinct is like, no, you don't like this guy. But he was like very nice and I got along well with him. And at the end of the night, I was like, you know what? Let's exchange numbers. Let's Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Und das ist nicht immer super wichtig für mich, aber ich weiß nicht, ich bekomme einfach ein bisschen Angst. I hate it.

I feel so shallow.

So that's why I want to give him a chance, because I'm like, he seems like a nice enough guy, you know, and I just feel like there's like some similarities between us. So I am gonna like go out with him and give him a chance.

I don't think I'm really like that.

You are. Yeah, a little bit.

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