Dalene Higgins

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13,483 appearances 100 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2024 last heard 4 Aug

Dalene Higgins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 46 in all, peaking in Oct 2025 with 7.

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I should have had this covered.

I should have had the money for this.

And since you don't, you turn to the credit card.

And then you think, what is wrong with me?

What is wrong with me?

Why didn't I have that?

And you're holding yourself to a standard of I should have it all figured out by now.

That's not necessarily true.

You have a lot of things figured out.

There are still some things that aren't quite connecting for different reasons.

So if you recognized yourself in even one of these, and it's okay if it was more, that's not a sign that you're failing.

It's a sign of two different things.

It's a sign you've been managing money without a system and or without a clear path of where you want to go.

saying I want to get to retirement, that's a great end step, but the path there is still blurry.

That's why these signs keep showing up.

It's why you keep beating yourself up.

And having a system that gets you down that path is what you need to help calm these quiet stressors.

So just as I said, these signs rarely show up as crisis.

And so in your mind, you're thinking, what is wrong with me?

I don't understand this.

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