Damien Hughes

Let's have a listen to Jamila explain it.

Can I advise anyone to go and listen to that and stick with it in the end?

Because she still gives us what I would still regard as the best answer to the question of what is your weakness?

And what's been the reactions to sharing that?

That's brilliant.

I love that.

Because that's a really elegant way, isn't it?

And an honest way, an authentic way.

But I like the idea of it gives you a plausible explanation of it that most people can empathize with.

Yeah, I like that.

I recently chatted with Steve Peters at an event who was talking about imposter syndrome and he was like, that's your brain doing its job perfectly well.

It's what it should be doing.

Because it's saying there's something important to you and you're questioning whether I have the ability to meet it.

And if I don't, what do I need to do to be able to

address that challenge so yeah I think it's a great idea should we listen to one of my favourite footballers of the last few years that we've certainly sat down and spoke to Scott McTominay because we met him when he was still at Manchester United and he was still meeting the challenges there but then he faced the fear of leaving his comfort zone going out to Italy and has thrived in a new league

Here he is.

Yeah.

He had those emerald green eyes, didn't he, that really sort of like drew you in.

not thinking deeply about things and diving headfirst into bad decisions all the time yeah exactly it's about recognizing that it's a signal isn't it that's telling you this is important to me there's that there's something significant that I need to address here and having the willingness not to think that that courage is the absence of fear it's the willingness to go and be comfortable with those moments of discomfort

Yeah, so if you think about like these emotions, remember Simon Sinek when he spoke to us about, we often don't have a language for our emotions.