Dan Savage

It seems like so many of my listeners are talking about and using Field these days and with good reason. Field lets you have control of your matches, not some creepy algorithm. Field is an app where curious people come to connect. On Field, you have the breathing room to explore your own desires, free from gatekeeping. Here's what that looks like. You decide who and what you like.

It seems like so many of my listeners are talking about and using Field these days and with good reason. Field lets you have control of your matches, not some creepy algorithm. Field is an app where curious people come to connect. On Field, you have the breathing room to explore your own desires, free from gatekeeping. Here's what that looks like. You decide who and what you like.

Sifting through an avalanche of likes is exhausting. On field, you can filter your likes based on preferences like sexuality, desires, gender, and age. which makes it so much easier to cut straight to the likes from like-minded people. No algorithmic gatekeeping on Field. The only person who can determine what you like is you.

Sifting through an avalanche of likes is exhausting. On field, you can filter your likes based on preferences like sexuality, desires, gender, and age. which makes it so much easier to cut straight to the likes from like-minded people. No algorithmic gatekeeping on Field. The only person who can determine what you like is you.

To honor the complexity of human desire, Field presents you with all options and leaves you in control of your experience. No pressure to swipe. If you happen to skip someone's profile, you can always ask to go back or undo your dislike at no extra cost. and you can bring your people along.

To honor the complexity of human desire, Field presents you with all options and leaves you in control of your experience. No pressure to swipe. If you happen to skip someone's profile, you can always ask to go back or undo your dislike at no extra cost. and you can bring your people along.

Field's new Constellation features lets you link profiles with your friends and lovers, so new connections will see who you are within your social context. Start a group chat and find your people with your people. There's no limit to how many times you can change your sexuality, desires, interests, or gender identity at Field.

Field's new Constellation features lets you link profiles with your friends and lovers, so new connections will see who you are within your social context. Start a group chat and find your people with your people. There's no limit to how many times you can change your sexuality, desires, interests, or gender identity at Field.

In fact, 62% of Field members evolved their sexuality, interests, and desires within their first year on the app. Whether you just moved to a new city and need to find a new community, or you're traveling and looking to meet new people, you can find a new bestie at Field. Download Field on the App Store or Google Play.

In fact, 62% of Field members evolved their sexuality, interests, and desires within their first year on the app. Whether you just moved to a new city and need to find a new community, or you're traveling and looking to meet new people, you can find a new bestie at Field. Download Field on the App Store or Google Play.

If you've been wondering about Field because you've heard so much about Field on this show from callers, not just from hosts, I, Dan Savage, recommend that you finally give Field a try yourself.

If you've been wondering about Field because you've heard so much about Field on this show from callers, not just from hosts, I, Dan Savage, recommend that you finally give Field a try yourself.

I have to reject one of your premises. You keep discussing a polyamorous relationship as if that is somehow antithetical to a committed relationship or the opposite of a committed relationship or not a committed relationship. A polyamorous relationship. with this woman that you describe as your partner. That is a committed relationship.

I have to reject one of your premises. You keep discussing a polyamorous relationship as if that is somehow antithetical to a committed relationship or the opposite of a committed relationship or not a committed relationship. A polyamorous relationship. with this woman that you describe as your partner. That is a committed relationship.

It's just not a sexually or emotionally exclusive relationship. So it doesn't sound to me like you have commitment issues. It sounds to me like you and this woman whose dog you killed are in conflict about your preferred relationship model. You want an open relationship, you want a polyamorous relationship, and what she wanted at the start and you were unable to give her

It's just not a sexually or emotionally exclusive relationship. So it doesn't sound to me like you have commitment issues. It sounds to me like you and this woman whose dog you killed are in conflict about your preferred relationship model. You want an open relationship, you want a polyamorous relationship, and what she wanted at the start and you were unable to give her

was a monogamous relationship. And so she, even though she's the one with another partner and you've only had a couple of flings, I guess, a couple of pieces on the side here and there, even though she's exercised her right as the partner of someone in an open polyamorous relationship to have another partner, it's not what she wanted.

was a monogamous relationship. And so she, even though she's the one with another partner and you've only had a couple of flings, I guess, a couple of pieces on the side here and there, even though she's exercised her right as the partner of someone in an open polyamorous relationship to have another partner, it's not what she wanted.

And now, now that you killed her dog, you use a lot of passive language, like the dog passed away, you killed her dog. now that you've killed her dog out of her mouth comes being with you feels like being with an abuser, which is, you know, you would never tell someone to stay with an abuser. If that's how she feels, she should obviously end this relationship.

And now, now that you killed her dog, you use a lot of passive language, like the dog passed away, you killed her dog. now that you've killed her dog out of her mouth comes being with you feels like being with an abuser, which is, you know, you would never tell someone to stay with an abuser. If that's how she feels, she should obviously end this relationship.