Dan Savage

That is good advice to like one up to go like one step further on themes that have already been incorporated into your erotic dynamic to like push things a little further rather than hit them with something from left field because you just never know what's going to work for someone or what's going to traumatize someone.

That is good advice to like one up to go like one step further on themes that have already been incorporated into your erotic dynamic to like push things a little further rather than hit them with something from left field because you just never know what's going to work for someone or what's going to traumatize someone.

That's what he's watching. When they say he likes to watch, he means them. Yes. Like he's already winning here. Like how many cherries on this Sunday does this one guy get?

That's what he's watching. When they say he likes to watch, he means them. Yes. Like he's already winning here. Like how many cherries on this Sunday does this one guy get?

Or maybe he's got a weak heart and they're in the will and they're trying to induce that heart attack by shitting in his mouth. By busting a move that he did not see coming. Yeah, people ask me this question all the time. Like, assign me a sex toy. And it's like, I'm sorry, I can't. do that, like a vibrator is like the basic first rung. But people are like, give me something crazy.

Or maybe he's got a weak heart and they're in the will and they're trying to induce that heart attack by shitting in his mouth. By busting a move that he did not see coming. Yeah, people ask me this question all the time. Like, assign me a sex toy. And it's like, I'm sorry, I can't. do that, like a vibrator is like the basic first rung. But people are like, give me something crazy.

And I'm like, well, sex toys are subjective. Like a roll of duct tape for some people is a sex toy. For most people, it's a hostage situation if it's being applied to a human being and not a sexual situation. And so I can't just like... give people random sex act assignments or kink assignments or sex toy assignments. It's got to be what works for you, works for your partner.

And I'm like, well, sex toys are subjective. Like a roll of duct tape for some people is a sex toy. For most people, it's a hostage situation if it's being applied to a human being and not a sexual situation. And so I can't just like... give people random sex act assignments or kink assignments or sex toy assignments. It's got to be what works for you, works for your partner.

And ladies, you know him better than Des or I do. What do you think will work for him? That's one level up like Des says.

And ladies, you know him better than Des or I do. What do you think will work for him? That's one level up like Des says.

I love it when listeners and readers of my column jump into the comment threads of my website and let us know how it played out. So ladies, let us know how this plays out. DM us pictures. Des and I will keep them private. I will share the comments. Doesn't, does only. But you know what?

I love it when listeners and readers of my column jump into the comment threads of my website and let us know how it played out. So ladies, let us know how this plays out. DM us pictures. Des and I will keep them private. I will share the comments. Doesn't, does only. But you know what?

I bet they want their comments shared with the world because this is one of those calls where people are, you know, maybe it's a genuine question. Like I said, I get this question a lot, but it's also like a kind of look at me question. Like, look at us. We're winning here. And you guys are. You are.

I bet they want their comments shared with the world because this is one of those calls where people are, you know, maybe it's a genuine question. Like I said, I get this question a lot, but it's also like a kind of look at me question. Like, look at us. We're winning here. And you guys are. You are.

One thing that came up in your show that surprised me, because your whole intro, the beginning, your affect, like the straight white dude, tall straight white dude, you go after the straight ladies for their heightism, which is you being an ally to short guys because you're a tall guy. So thank you for your allyship on behalf of short guys everywhere. I'm also a tall guy.

One thing that came up in your show that surprised me, because your whole intro, the beginning, your affect, like the straight white dude, tall straight white dude, you go after the straight ladies for their heightism, which is you being an ally to short guys because you're a tall guy. So thank you for your allyship on behalf of short guys everywhere. I'm also a tall guy.

You talk about a finger in the butt and like not a lot of straight kind of white dudes your age would feel comfortable admitting to any anal penetration in their comedy special. Why did you go there?

You talk about a finger in the butt and like not a lot of straight kind of white dudes your age would feel comfortable admitting to any anal penetration in their comedy special. Why did you go there?

I'm not accusing you of joke theft. That is a joke I made in Savage Love, my column, like 30 years ago. That straight guys, at least then, I think straight guys are more evolved now and able to experience pleasure now in ways that straight guys, when I first started writing Savage Love, weren't.

I'm not accusing you of joke theft. That is a joke I made in Savage Love, my column, like 30 years ago. That straight guys, at least then, I think straight guys are more evolved now and able to experience pleasure now in ways that straight guys, when I first started writing Savage Love, weren't.