Dan Savage

If after you've been there, you have your little after action report, you tell each other how it felt, what you enjoyed, what you didn't enjoy, what you liked, what you might want to do next time, one of you or both of you want to bring that up, then you can think about it. But just, it's really dangerous.

If after you've been there, you have your little after action report, you tell each other how it felt, what you enjoyed, what you didn't enjoy, what you liked, what you might want to do next time, one of you or both of you want to bring that up, then you can think about it. But just, it's really dangerous.

For a couple who've gone into a sex club or a sex party and sworn they're only going to play with each other, really dangerous to try to upgrade to playing with others in the moment. Because one person might really want to and the other person might feel pressured to. And that can have catastrophic consequences after the fact. When that post-nut clarity swamps you and the one who was sort of

For a couple who've gone into a sex club or a sex party and sworn they're only going to play with each other, really dangerous to try to upgrade to playing with others in the moment. Because one person might really want to and the other person might feel pressured to. And that can have catastrophic consequences after the fact. When that post-nut clarity swamps you and the one who was sort of

ambivalent about it or a little reluctant but went along could wind up feeling tricked or violated. So just don't fucking do that. You go to that first sex party and I agree you shouldn't wait until you're bored or old or tired of each other or your sex life is falling apart to go.

ambivalent about it or a little reluctant but went along could wind up feeling tricked or violated. So just don't fucking do that. You go to that first sex party and I agree you shouldn't wait until you're bored or old or tired of each other or your sex life is falling apart to go.

When you go to this party, young and hot lesbians, when you go to this party, if you're only going in to have sex with each other, only have sex with each other. And if other people approach you, they're not doing anything wrong.

When you go to this party, young and hot lesbians, when you go to this party, if you're only going in to have sex with each other, only have sex with each other. And if other people approach you, they're not doing anything wrong.

Unless after you say no, where if it's kind of touchy environment, after you gently remove their hand, if one of them, somebody reaches out and starts touching you, if it's that kind of sex club or sex party, if they keep asking or keep putting that hand back, then they've done something wrong. But nobody's done anything wrong if while you're at the lesbian sex rave, somebody approaches you.

Unless after you say no, where if it's kind of touchy environment, after you gently remove their hand, if one of them, somebody reaches out and starts touching you, if it's that kind of sex club or sex party, if they keep asking or keep putting that hand back, then they've done something wrong. But nobody's done anything wrong if while you're at the lesbian sex rave, somebody approaches you.

Somebody wants to fuck you. That's what everybody's there for. But if you're only there for each other, you only have to fuck each other. You don't have to fuck anybody else. Have fun.

Somebody wants to fuck you. That's what everybody's there for. But if you're only there for each other, you only have to fuck each other. You don't have to fuck anybody else. Have fun.

I did an intro top of the show a couple of weeks ago about Mark Robinson, the odious piece of shit who the GOP nominated for governor in North Carolina, who is hanging out at the back of video, you know, in video booths and porn shops for years and years and years, five nights a week, video booths and porn shops have glory holes. Dicks pop through those holes.

I did an intro top of the show a couple of weeks ago about Mark Robinson, the odious piece of shit who the GOP nominated for governor in North Carolina, who is hanging out at the back of video, you know, in video booths and porn shops for years and years and years, five nights a week, video booths and porn shops have glory holes. Dicks pop through those holes.

People don't spend all night long, five nights a week in a video booth in the back of a dirty bookstore. Uh, Unless they want that dick to pop through that hole. Also, Mark Robinson obsessed with trans porn and said that he liked trans porn because he got the dick basically without the dude.

People don't spend all night long, five nights a week in a video booth in the back of a dirty bookstore. Uh, Unless they want that dick to pop through that hole. Also, Mark Robinson obsessed with trans porn and said that he liked trans porn because he got the dick basically without the dude.

And I got this really kind of moving email from a straight male listener who heard me say that there are some straight identified guys out there who aren't into men, but they are into dick. So they like trans women who have dicks and they like glory holes in video booths because the dick comes through the hole and it's not attached to a dude. It's just this floating disembodied dick.

And I got this really kind of moving email from a straight male listener who heard me say that there are some straight identified guys out there who aren't into men, but they are into dick. So they like trans women who have dicks and they like glory holes in video booths because the dick comes through the hole and it's not attached to a dude. It's just this floating disembodied dick.

Dick, no dude. And that guy wrote me to say how affirmed he felt because no one had ever affirmed his identity. His identity as a straight identified male until he heard me talking about the particular kind of straight identified male he is at the top of that show. Your husband could be one of those guys, straight but aroused by the sight of dick.

Dick, no dude. And that guy wrote me to say how affirmed he felt because no one had ever affirmed his identity. His identity as a straight identified male until he heard me talking about the particular kind of straight identified male he is at the top of that show. Your husband could be one of those guys, straight but aroused by the sight of dick.