Dan Savage

When you go to this party, young and hot lesbians, when you go to this party, if you're only going in to have sex with each other, only have sex with each other. And if other people approach you, they're not doing anything wrong.

Unless after you say no, where if it's kind of touchy environment, after you gently remove their hand, if one of them, somebody reaches out and starts touching you, if it's that kind of sex club or sex party, if they keep asking or keep putting that hand back, then they've done something wrong. But nobody's done anything wrong if while you're at the lesbian sex rave, somebody approaches you.

Unless after you say no, where if it's kind of touchy environment, after you gently remove their hand, if one of them, somebody reaches out and starts touching you, if it's that kind of sex club or sex party, if they keep asking or keep putting that hand back, then they've done something wrong. But nobody's done anything wrong if while you're at the lesbian sex rave, somebody approaches you.

Somebody wants to fuck you. That's what everybody's there for. But if you're only there for each other, you only have to fuck each other. You don't have to fuck anybody else. Have fun.

Somebody wants to fuck you. That's what everybody's there for. But if you're only there for each other, you only have to fuck each other. You don't have to fuck anybody else. Have fun.

I did an intro top of the show a couple of weeks ago about Mark Robinson, the odious piece of shit who the GOP nominated for governor in North Carolina, who is hanging out at the back of video, you know, in video booths and porn shops for years and years and years, five nights a week, video booths and porn shops have glory holes. Dicks pop through those holes.

I did an intro top of the show a couple of weeks ago about Mark Robinson, the odious piece of shit who the GOP nominated for governor in North Carolina, who is hanging out at the back of video, you know, in video booths and porn shops for years and years and years, five nights a week, video booths and porn shops have glory holes. Dicks pop through those holes.

People don't spend all night long, five nights a week in a video booth in the back of a dirty bookstore. Uh, Unless they want that dick to pop through that hole. Also, Mark Robinson obsessed with trans porn and said that he liked trans porn because he got the dick basically without the dude.

People don't spend all night long, five nights a week in a video booth in the back of a dirty bookstore. Uh, Unless they want that dick to pop through that hole. Also, Mark Robinson obsessed with trans porn and said that he liked trans porn because he got the dick basically without the dude.

And I got this really kind of moving email from a straight male listener who heard me say that there are some straight identified guys out there who aren't into men, but they are into dick. So they like trans women who have dicks and they like glory holes in video booths because the dick comes through the hole and it's not attached to a dude. It's just this floating disembodied dick.

And I got this really kind of moving email from a straight male listener who heard me say that there are some straight identified guys out there who aren't into men, but they are into dick. So they like trans women who have dicks and they like glory holes in video booths because the dick comes through the hole and it's not attached to a dude. It's just this floating disembodied dick.

Dick, no dude. And that guy wrote me to say how affirmed he felt because no one had ever affirmed his identity. His identity as a straight identified male until he heard me talking about the particular kind of straight identified male he is at the top of that show. Your husband could be one of those guys, straight but aroused by the sight of dick.

Dick, no dude. And that guy wrote me to say how affirmed he felt because no one had ever affirmed his identity. His identity as a straight identified male until he heard me talking about the particular kind of straight identified male he is at the top of that show. Your husband could be one of those guys, straight but aroused by the sight of dick.

Most straight guys who watch porn, they're looking at dick when they watch porn. Now, there are some straight guys out there who don't watch porn that have any men in it. They just watch... women's solo or lesbian porn, like seeing other dicks ruins it for them. But most straight porn has guys in it with dicks because dick isn't a deal breaker in porn as a visual for most straight guys.

Most straight guys who watch porn, they're looking at dick when they watch porn. Now, there are some straight guys out there who don't watch porn that have any men in it. They just watch... women's solo or lesbian porn, like seeing other dicks ruins it for them. But most straight porn has guys in it with dicks because dick isn't a deal breaker in porn as a visual for most straight guys.

And your husband could be one of those guys. And he wants to like, he's excited by the thought of jacking off with another guy while they watch porn together. And They're being dick around other men's dicks around. Okay. Worst case scenario. And my heart goes out to your mom.

And your husband could be one of those guys. And he wants to like, he's excited by the thought of jacking off with another guy while they watch porn together. And They're being dick around other men's dicks around. Okay. Worst case scenario. And my heart goes out to your mom.

That can be really traumatic to be married to somebody for years and years and find out this woman that the man that pretended he loved you and married you was gay. Heart goes out to your mom. Is your husband gay? Well, you say your sex life is pretty great. really good. You guys have a good adventurous sex life.

That can be really traumatic to be married to somebody for years and years and find out this woman that the man that pretended he loved you and married you was gay. Heart goes out to your mom. Is your husband gay? Well, you say your sex life is pretty great. really good. You guys have a good adventurous sex life.

When you talk to women who are married to closeted gay men, you rarely hear we had a great sex life. Usually the sex was lousy and the woman for years couldn't figure out why it was lousy, thought maybe the problem was her, may have been encouraged to believe the problem was her by her lying closeted husband.