Dan Savage

I wrote an article once a million years ago when I had been accused of being biphobic and I don't think anyone who actually listens to me talk about this shit on this show would think I'm biphobic. But I opened this piece with I'm not biphobic. In fact, I love bisexual people so much I wish there were more of them.

And the whole piece is me going on and on and on for 2,000 words in June of 2011 imploring bisexual people who had disappeared into opposite sex relationships and allowed themselves to be perceived as heterosexual by not being out, by not asserting themselves as bi. I wanted them to come out.

And the whole piece is me going on and on and on for 2,000 words in June of 2011 imploring bisexual people who had disappeared into opposite sex relationships and allowed themselves to be perceived as heterosexual by not being out, by not asserting themselves as bi. I wanted them to come out.

And I pointed out that if all these bisexual people with opposite sex partners came out, they would represent the vast majority of the LGBTQ community. And that has come to pass in the last decade and a half. And I'm really happy about that. Now, when you look at breakdowns, you see those stories about 20%, 25% of Gen Z and millennials identifying as LGBT, and then you look in the numbers,

And I pointed out that if all these bisexual people with opposite sex partners came out, they would represent the vast majority of the LGBTQ community. And that has come to pass in the last decade and a half. And I'm really happy about that. Now, when you look at breakdowns, you see those stories about 20%, 25% of Gen Z and millennials identifying as LGBT, and then you look in the numbers,

over time, and the numbers for gays and lesbians, pretty constant. Trans people, pretty constant. What's skyrocketed is the number of out bi people. And that's wonderful. Why aren't you one of them? Why does your husband not know that you're bi? Are you not safe coming out to your husband as bisexual?

over time, and the numbers for gays and lesbians, pretty constant. Trans people, pretty constant. What's skyrocketed is the number of out bi people. And that's wonderful. Why aren't you one of them? Why does your husband not know that you're bi? Are you not safe coming out to your husband as bisexual?

In which case, yeah, that's one of the problems that contributes to poor mental health outcomes among bisexuals is when they're married to bigots, which is a mistake. Maybe you married your husband before you were fully consciously aware of your bisexuality, before you encountered this hot trainer at the gym that's really called the question. And I don't want to fault you for that.

In which case, yeah, that's one of the problems that contributes to poor mental health outcomes among bisexuals is when they're married to bigots, which is a mistake. Maybe you married your husband before you were fully consciously aware of your bisexuality, before you encountered this hot trainer at the gym that's really called the question. And I don't want to fault you for that.

Sometimes people are still, actually all times, I think all people are always figuring out who they are. And sometimes we marry, scramble our DNA together, have kids with someone and we don't quite know who we are or didn't know who we are, or we continued to evolve and became different people.

Sometimes people are still, actually all times, I think all people are always figuring out who they are. And sometimes we marry, scramble our DNA together, have kids with someone and we don't quite know who we are or didn't know who we are, or we continued to evolve and became different people.

And then you find yourself sort of marooned where the most important person in your life is really invested in this idea of who you thought you were. You weren't lying, you weren't actively being deceitful, but who you thought you were when you married them and unwinding their investment in who they thought you were is perilous because the stakes are high.

And then you find yourself sort of marooned where the most important person in your life is really invested in this idea of who you thought you were. You weren't lying, you weren't actively being deceitful, but who you thought you were when you married them and unwinding their investment in who they thought you were is perilous because the stakes are high.

What if your husband is an anti-buy bigot and leaves you? On the other hand, wouldn't you rather be out to your husband? On the other hand, if being out to your husband means you can get his permission to go fuck the hot trainer, it seems like the rewards might be worth the risks.

What if your husband is an anti-buy bigot and leaves you? On the other hand, wouldn't you rather be out to your husband? On the other hand, if being out to your husband means you can get his permission to go fuck the hot trainer, it seems like the rewards might be worth the risks.

Even if you don't get permission from your husband to go fuck the hot trainer, at least now you don't have to hide from your husband anymore. All right, so I want you to be one of those bisexuals who came out because I importuned you to, and I think you'll be happier once you're out.

Even if you don't get permission from your husband to go fuck the hot trainer, at least now you don't have to hide from your husband anymore. All right, so I want you to be one of those bisexuals who came out because I importuned you to, and I think you'll be happier once you're out.

It is better to be loved for who you are than to walk around wondering if the people who professed to love you would love you if they knew who you were. So setting aside that there'll be more hot trainers, more hot women in the future that you will encounter who will drive you crazy, make you so fucking horny. That's going to be a constant pleasure that you will face over the course of your life.

It is better to be loved for who you are than to walk around wondering if the people who professed to love you would love you if they knew who you were. So setting aside that there'll be more hot trainers, more hot women in the future that you will encounter who will drive you crazy, make you so fucking horny. That's going to be a constant pleasure that you will face over the course of your life.

The thing I think you really need to address here is the toss up at the end that you're not out to your husband about being bi. Go tell your husband you're bi right now. And then call me back and let me know how it went. Sick of the one-size-fits-all method, especially when it comes to your erectile dysfunction treatment? Well, good news. Now you've got options with HIMS.