Dan Savage

I got nothing. I don't have some alt suggestion for injecting meth into your dick to shrink your dick. The harm reduction intervention I would recommend to your friend here is to stop injecting meth into your dick. His penis. And if he wants to feel like he has a really small dick, there are tiny little dick cages out there that compress the erectile tissues almost all the way back into the body.

Something you can do. You're soft. You can grip the head and you can push down and basically squash all the erectile tissues. It's not good for them. If you do it and immediately let go of your dick, you're not going to have done yourself any harm, but there are people who lock devices under their dicks that keep them in that position.

Something you can do. You're soft. You can grip the head and you can push down and basically squash all the erectile tissues. It's not good for them. If you do it and immediately let go of your dick, you're not going to have done yourself any harm, but there are people who lock devices under their dicks that keep them in that position.

And the risk is damage to the erectile tissues if you're wearing this kind of chastity device and your dick begins to have a spontaneous erection and you become aroused and all that erectile tissue is filling with blood, but it is crushed and collapsed and doesn't have anywhere to safely – and you can damage those tissues.

And the risk is damage to the erectile tissues if you're wearing this kind of chastity device and your dick begins to have a spontaneous erection and you become aroused and all that erectile tissue is filling with blood, but it is crushed and collapsed and doesn't have anywhere to safely – and you can damage those tissues.

So your friend could do that if he doesn't care about damaging those tissues, if he really is the sworn enemy of his dick that he seems to be. Also, I guess if he could find a... There are gender-confirming surgeons out there who perform nullifications on people who want to be eunuchs or to have Ken doll crotches.

So your friend could do that if he doesn't care about damaging those tissues, if he really is the sworn enemy of his dick that he seems to be. Also, I guess if he could find a... There are gender-confirming surgeons out there who perform nullifications on people who want to be eunuchs or to have Ken doll crotches.

There are surgeries for Peyronie's disease that can help people with Peyronie's disease, which is a buildup of plaque in the erectile tissue, can cause a bend in the penis, sometimes they're painful, and that can be corrected for, but the downside of the surgical interventions for Peyronie's is that they tend to, by taking out on one side or the other or both, some of the plaque, they tend to make the dick a little shorter.

There are surgeries for Peyronie's disease that can help people with Peyronie's disease, which is a buildup of plaque in the erectile tissue, can cause a bend in the penis, sometimes they're painful, and that can be corrected for, but the downside of the surgical interventions for Peyronie's is that they tend to, by taking out on one side or the other or both, some of the plaque, they tend to make the dick a little shorter.

And if there are people out there who would literally perform nullification surgeries electively on people because they long to be eunuchs or long to have Ken doll crotches, maybe there's one or two out there who would do that for your friend and shorten his dick permanently and he won't need to take the risks, including risks of infection and gangrene.

And if there are people out there who would literally perform nullification surgeries electively on people because they long to be eunuchs or long to have Ken doll crotches, maybe there's one or two out there who would do that for your friend and shorten his dick permanently and he won't need to take the risks, including risks of infection and gangrene.

Like one of the things on the table here is no dick at all, if he's not careful, off the table. Sorry, you can hear my voice, your friend's predicament, making me a little uncomfortable. And again, the harm reduction strategy I would urge is for him to stop harming himself like this with that dangerous drug in this dangerous way.

Like one of the things on the table here is no dick at all, if he's not careful, off the table. Sorry, you can hear my voice, your friend's predicament, making me a little uncomfortable. And again, the harm reduction strategy I would urge is for him to stop harming himself like this with that dangerous drug in this dangerous way.

And if he wants to fantasize about having a much smaller dick or shrink his dick, you can explore that through role play and these now very aggressive strategies. chastity devices and cages, which some people will say when you read about them, that if they wear them consistently and over long periods of time, does make their dicks smaller.

And if he wants to fantasize about having a much smaller dick or shrink his dick, you can explore that through role play and these now very aggressive strategies. chastity devices and cages, which some people will say when you read about them, that if they wear them consistently and over long periods of time, does make their dicks smaller.

Don't know if that's true because people who are wearing these cages fantasize about their dicks being made smaller. Maybe it's just wishful thinking or less dickful thinking, but your friend could give it a try and give meth a rest. All right, time for the listener feedback section of the show.

Don't know if that's true because people who are wearing these cages fantasize about their dicks being made smaller. Maybe it's just wishful thinking or less dickful thinking, but your friend could give it a try and give meth a rest. All right, time for the listener feedback section of the show.

First up, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment thread at savage.love. Says Incontempo, the lady with the suction toys who was wondering about asking her new sex partners to use the suction toys that worked for her. In her last relationship, her marriage, girl, just bring it up.

First up, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment thread at savage.love. Says Incontempo, the lady with the suction toys who was wondering about asking her new sex partners to use the suction toys that worked for her. In her last relationship, her marriage, girl, just bring it up.

One of the first times I had sex with my boyfriend, I asked if he could bring me off with my trusted vibrator. And he was like, sure. Seven years and two vibrators later, we still bring the toys in when we want some guaranteed fun for both of us. He has never been insecure about it. The guys who are insecure about it can hit the bricks as far as I'm concerned.