Danette

You know, I think there's two different issues here.

I think one, you're checking out, which is okay.

I think you've been in each other's lives and you've served purposes and you've learned valuable lessons and you've experienced this great love.

But at this point in time, I think your heart is out of it for whatever reason.

And that is totally fair and fine.

You've moved past it.

And I'm going to get into your additional info and ideal outcome.

But I want to bring this up because no one's touched on it yet.

He's 34.

He's living at home with his parents and maybe grandma, but he's acting as a caregiver to everyone.

He could be just in over his head, caring for his parents, supporting them potentially financially in some ways, caring for grandma.

This guy could be burnt out.

He could be depressed.

He could be unmotivated.

To me, I'm like jumping from careers, going through an apprenticeship and then quitting last minute.

It seems like maybe he's just super unmotivated or just lost or something.

I'm like,

Honestly, maybe he's got undiagnosed ADHD and he can't stick to something because of the lack of motivation.

Like there seems like there's bigger issues going on with him and it is not your job to fix it.

You've made the recommendations of like, hey, get therapy, maybe get evaluated.