Daniel Coyle
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Like, why does being on this podcast matter to you right now?
Let's talk about it.
And then he gives them a time constraint.
We're not going to talk about for an hour.
You got 10 minutes.
All right, then we're going to move on to the next thing.
And as he says, what happens in those groups is people are nervous and they resist for a while and then they fall in love with each other.
And it's, you know, we often think...
that in order to create trusting relationships, we need to build up trust before we can be vulnerable.
But as this shows, we've got it backwards.
It's moments of shared vulnerability that actually create relationships.
And so designing moments that create that shared vulnerability, like Peter does, get close, talk about this thing.
Don't give me your opinion on something.
Opinions, everybody's got opinions.
That doesn't get us anywhere.
Don't give me any facts or information.
Tell me meaning.
Let's talk about meaningfulness.
How did you get here?
What matters to you?