Darby Saxbe
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It is super bad for you.
And we know this from the longest running longitudinal study, which was done at Harvard.
They recruited men who were undergrads and a comparison sample of inner city Boston teens.
They followed them through the ends of their lives and are now following their grandkids.
So this is like a hundred year study.
And they found that more than your income, your job prestige, it was the quality of your relationships with people close to you that predicted a longer, healthier life.
So the more I think we can encourage men to invest in relationships, the more we can benefit their health.
We have this manosphere idea that men need to be making lots of money, dating lots of women.
Lots of Lamborghinis.
That is not really what's good for men.
Or anyone.
Or anyone.
Or for society.
I guess it's worth a shot.
I'm trying it.
How many Lamborghinis can you drive?
Right, exactly.
Well, I think it's that social connection.
Do you have a support system in later life?