Daryn Kagan

Then he ghosted me for a few weeks and then he popped back again.

And so his story was he was a single dad, married, had a child and they got divorced and his ex-wife died.

So he when we met, he was raising he was single dad raising his daughter alone.

I had never actually dated anybody with kids, which I can't believe I went that far.

But let alone, I mean, it's one thing to relate to date a divorced dad, but he was like a full-time single dad.

It was just him and his daughter.

And so we went to dinner and I said, well, how does a single dad date?

And he said, well, how does therapist Joe say I should date or how do I date?

I'm like, let's start with therapist Joe.

He said, therapist Joe said that he's certainly allowed to date, but he should keep it separate from his daughter because she has already experienced loss.

She's already lost her mother.

And he's like, yeah, that's not how I date.

Yes.

Oh, there are a lot of green flags about him.

Actually...

If you want the ultimate green flag, date a man who's a father because you see it's fast forward.

I kept investing in these single guys thinking, oh, they'll turn into this.

But this was kind of like rooms to go.

Like you could see, you know how like on social media, let's get to the good part.

Like you see him in the good part.