Daryn Kagan

Like you could see, oh, wait, he is he is on this earth to be like a husband and a father.

Like this is how he does it.

There's no question.

Now, we dated a couple of years.

We got married.

I legally adopted her.

So that was my sideways into motherhood.

And then the year before I met them, I'd signed up to be a big sister in the Big Brother Big Sister program.

And because of what was happening in that little girl's life, she came to live with us full time.

So I went from single, no kids to married with two little girls.

With exactly the girls, the kids I was meant to have the whole time.

No angst of, oh, I need a biological child.

And that's how we became this family.

So I would have told her, to go back to your question, I would have told Darren, sad, Darren, what you want is not coming.

What's coming is better than you could ever dream for yourself because it's bigger and better and exactly what was supposed to happen.

That's what I would tell her.

before we do, I just want to say, cause I know your demographic is that 30 something 30 to 40 woman.

Like it, the demographic is who I was.

And it's not just women who are worried about money, but it's women worried about like where all the good guys.

And I would just say, just know he's on the way and that that family can look very different than what you think it's supposed to be.