Daryn Kagan

And when you open your mind to that, like the magic can really happen.

Oh, no, I gave up.

Yeah.

Right before, yeah.

And that they go, oh, once you give up.

I had so let go of it that when I met Trent, who you're about to meet, one of the things I thought was so hot about him is that he was a single dad.

So I thought, oh, he's busy Monday through Friday.

I'll only see him on the weekends.

That's perfect.

I have my weeks to myself.

And he was the one who said, no, hold on.

Like if we're not really going for this, like I became the noncommittal one and he became the one who's like, look, are you in this or you're not?

I was like, we're in.

that sexy yeah well he like kind of got it's with me in shape I'm like oh okay and he knew what he wanted he knew he knew the value that was in front of him like a smart smart man well no he was clear about what he wanted and he wasn't sure that I was that like if I didn't if I wasn't going to be all in he was not interested in somebody who just wanted to see him on the weekends he wanted a full-time relationship first time I ever found one of those people

And so I married him.

Yes, exactly.

But I truly, truly gave up.

That's one of the physics of love.

In addition to all of his amazing attributes, you call him... So my term of endearment is husband, not sweetheart or sweetie or whatever, because I can't think of a bigger term of endearment since I never thought I would get one of those.

So I just call him husband.