Dave Ramsey

Did you pay for all your dates growing up?

I think it was a little different in the north.

The red flag is not as much about her character or your character, it's certainly occurring to me, as it is that you guys might not be a match.

The values are different.

Yeah.

If you can't get aligned on the handling of money and the value of money in this relationship, that is a red flag for any relationship.

If you can't be in agreement on how we're going to handle money in the future together, we can't be in agreement about how we're going to handle crazy in-laws, we can't be in agreement about religion, and we can't be in agreement about kids, how many to have and whether they're going to run the house or whether we're going to run the house, then these are the things that tear a marriage apart.

And the high-quality marriages get aligned on those four things.

And so you're not aligned on that.

And the fact that you're not aligned is the red flag.

That's a big red flag.

It just took me a minute to get there.

I'm trying to wander around in the cultural bull crap and figure out what's going on here.

It's beyond culture.

Or whether or not we got a princess on the line, but I don't know that.

I don't hear that in his description of her.

I don't hear that about her, but could be.

How many hours a day do they spend on Instagram?

Oh, we do know that.

The number of hours on Instagram is directly attributed to amount of spending, 100%.