Dave Ramsey

And we were thinking about what things we're going to be like when we're 65 and we're 35.

And, you know, yes, we can buy a truck, but we have to do it in line with the way we said we were going to run our lives.

And you just call back to that.

You call back to that.

And, you know.

And, you know, and so and Sharon and I do that to this day and we've been working this stuff for 45 years.

But we'll have to sit down and go, now, how is that aligned with this?

And we may have an argument to make about it, but or maybe there's a slight adjustment or something.

But but you can't just go off the rails and go, yeah, we've been working for three years to get out of debt.

And I'm going to screw it all up by going to get in a truck payment.

So the third time you went back in debt is what you're talking about.

You just keep going back.

Yeah.

And you went along with those?

Okay, this is not a money problem.

This is a marriage problem.

You can't do things behind your spouse's back because you're afraid of your spouse.

And it creates conflict.

See, that's breaking his word to his wife.

That's a serious problem.