Dave Ramsey

And so – but if yours is only growing for you and hers is only growing for her, that does kind of leave –

a negative light on what she's concerned about and she's concerned fairly, then we need to grow a life together from this point forward.

The main purpose of this is that she should not come out of this with 20 million bucks two years from now.

Right.

Like, yeah, that's the main purpose.

So we, we exit with what we entered with and then have a formula for how the growth would be dispersed.

And I don't think 50-50 growth is fair.

Because if you made 10% on your investments, you'd make $4.5 million a year, and she'd make $300,000.

Right.

So but I mean, if you want to be generous on it and say, you know, 70 percent of the growth from this point forward on our whole thing is mine and 30 percent on the whole thing is yours or whatever.

Make up a number.

I don't care.

But I mean, so the two things you have to address is leaving with what we entered.

And then how do we build a life together together?

and address the growth.

Right.

Okay.

That sounds pretty reasonable.

Yeah, but I would not set up a roommate situation where what's yours is yours and mine is mine, and we have to decide who pays for the mustard in the refrigerator.

Oh, that'll drive you nuts.