David Bayer

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The School of Greatness · The Golden Equation That Turns Desire Into Reality | David Bayer · 15 Jul 2026 podcast

And it makes sense when you look at what happened when we were children.

So, you know, you've got beautiful eight-month-old daughters.

I've got a three-and-a-half-year-old.

And what I see in my son is his expectation, rightfully so, of unconditional love from me.

So we all expected unconditional love from our parents.

But I don't care who your parent was, how good they were, and there are plenty that, you know, weren't great on paper.

But your parents are never going to have unconditional love for you.

They're conditional, right?

You have the condition of your career.

You have the condition of your relationship with your spouse.

You have the condition of being a single mom or a single dad.

You have the condition of your own trauma.

You have the condition of so many things.

So there are always going to be times when a child expects the parent to be present for them and the parent is absent because of conditionality.

In that absence, the child subconsciously believes it has something to do with them.

And so that is why we find I am not enough or I'm not good enough everywhere because it happened to all of us.

But and this has become one of my passions like really understanding the structure of reality and the structure sort of like a metaphysical Version of Joseph Campbell's hero's journey like what's really happening here because if reality is loving How do we explain all of these things that seem to be absent of love?

It's how do you explain it?

well

my own experience and what i've seen consistently with with other people is that that that not being enough um creates a compensation which we talked about before that becomes your personality and so you embark upon this journey with a nervous system that to prove or to approve or to please or to whatever yeah um and what's what seems to happen is that compensation that comes out of feeling like you weren't enough

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