David Bayer

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which is your personality, works for a while.

Yeah, it's a strategy, and it has strengths, it has gifts.

But also remember, it is a neurology, it's a nervous system.

And so as it works, it starts to be applied into more and more areas of your life.

And what happens is at about 40 years old, there's this emergence of what we would call the core program.

It's between 40 and 60, where people would describe it as, I don't understand.

The thing that I've always been good at that got me to where I am is starting to be the thing that's suffocating me.

That's the core program.

Yeah.

It's overdevelopment of that neurology.

that will bring you to your knees.

So people have their long dark night of the soul or they hit their bottom.

It doesn't have to be with drugs or alcohol.

It's like, I just can't keep pleasing people.

I've given no time for myself and so now the aspects of myself or my health are starting to degrade.

Or someone has built up this personality that is, I'm the one who's able to bring order to chaos.

But now there's so much chaos that chaos just beats them down.

And in that beat down,

which again is a byproduct of this overdeveloped aspect of your nervous system, you are incapable of solving it on your own.

So it doesn't matter what great personal development tool that you have.

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