Dayna Abraham
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831 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2020
last heard Aug 2023
Dayna Abraham’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And then the connection, you're building connection out of the moment so that you can build that trust.
And you're doing that with the very traditional connection methods like one-on-one time and game nights and movie nights and vacations, all those things.
But I think the one that's more powerful is the in-between moments.
The way that you talk to your teenager when they walk in the room, the way that you interact with them when you walk in their room and you see that they haven't cleaned their room for the 20th time.
It's those little in-between moments to say,
to stay connected, to join in on what they're interested in, just how you react, how you respond, those are gonna build trust.
And sometimes it's using those scripts that you use in the moment when things are hard, you're using them out of the moment so that your kid doesn't connect them only with bad situations.
Right.
Something like I notice.
Right.
Like how many of us say I notice that, you know, or whatever.
And then our kids get triggered by hearing I notice because they think it's only used when, quote unquote, they're in trouble.
It's sending that little text that says, like, what are you thinking about you?
Or I have to try so hard with my teenager.
I open the door and I want to be like, oh, I asked you to clean your room.
But it's even that they can see that.
Right.
So changing the way that in just like before you even open the door.
Right.
Knock.
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