Deborah Kat

It helps you to identify what do you need at, you know, what is the atmosphere like, right?

For some people, atmosphere is incredibly important.

You know, for people who have the sensual blueprint, it's like if there's dirty laundry, at the edge of the bed, the dirty laundry is talking to them louder than the penises.

Yeah, of course.

You know, for somebody who is more on the sexual side, their atmosphere is, you know, a hard surface, like they don't need quite as much.

You know, and so knowing what you need to, you know, be aroused is super important.

Knowing what your partner needs to be aroused is super important.

And knowing, like, how can we do this together?

You know, where are the overlaps?

And so it does take, you know, it does take slowing down.

It does take conversation.

It does take space.

you know, internal exploration, you know, for the guys who want, who are, who, who feel the, you know, the sexual tension and feel like they don't have an outlet.

It's very, you know, it having, starting that conversation can be incredibly hard.

I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna lie.

Yeah.

You know, however, there are things out there these days.

It's like, hey, babe, have you you know, I was listening to this podcast and this woman talked about this thing called the erotic blueprints.

And, you know, I looked it up and I'm wondering if you'd be open to taking the test.

You know, would that be something that's interesting to you?