Deborah Kat
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It is well lit.
It is well decorated.
It is, you know, the best possible angle.
To make it as big as possible, as hard as possible, and...
And, you know, as intrusive as possible, to be honest.
Like, that is the way porn is shot.
And then, you know, so a lot of times men have kind of, like,
Confidence issues around around their hard on for sure.
And so oftentimes, you know, what will happen on their side of the fence is it's like, oh, my God, it's up.
Let's do it.
Right.
Right.
And on the other side of the fence, you know, their partner might not be ready.
Right.
And they might not care about the hard on as much as their partner does.
I'm not saying that we shouldn't.
I'm just saying that it doesn't need to be the center of attention.
Yeah, and I would say that, you know, penetration, like, it is such, it can be such an intense experience.
It's such an intimate experience, right?
And that, like, if you can make that last, like,