Deborah Kat

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

And one of the things that I personally find is that the better the relationship is that I have with myself and the more that I, you know, have self pleasure and the more that I can bring to my relationship, you know, cause I'm not, I'm not putting all of my turn on and all of my expectation on my partner to turn me on.

It's,

And he feels it.

If I'm in a good mood, and he comes into the kitchen, and you know, he catches my good mood.

Likewise, you know, the same the same with with him when, when when I come into, you know, like, when he comes home from, from, you know, he's a martial artist.

So when he comes home from practice, like,

Like I could feel him across the room because there's so much turn on there in his body.

And yeah.

Oh my God, yes.

Yes.

We've had a lot of those.

I would assume, right?

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

And, you know, there's I mean, one of the things that we've been really fortunate about is that communication is something that, you know, I'm a communicator.

Right.

This isn't working for me.

This is working for me.