Dee Salmin

You're probably going to find someone more suitable to you that your friends have introduced you to.

Or it's like, you know, maybe if you want a long-term relationship and you want a really healthy long-term relationship, like, maybe do not have sex straight away.

And that might seem really conservative, but this is advice that we've been getting told for a long time.

But I just think, like, these...

are things that if you want, if this is what you're looking for and you want a healthy, happy, heterosexual relationship, like, that trust should be earned.

But I think we hear these stories of, like, you know, we were casually hooking up with and he treated me like shit and then one day he just all of a sudden, like...

I threatened to leave and he turned around and now we're happy.

Like we hear these stories.

Yeah.

And they're like the exception to the rule.

And there's nothing new about saying this, but I think we hold on to them, right?

Oh my gosh, of course.

And we go like, well, that'll happen to me.

I was the exact same.

I was the exact same.

It was like...

oh, here we go, like, what's Dee got to bring to us for the, like, you know, the drinks on Saturday night?

Like, who's she messaging now?

Like, who's she seeing now?

And, like, I genuinely do think I loved that part of my life.