Devale Ellis
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540 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Apr 2025
Devale Ellis’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yes, it's that simple. That's why I think that the whole 50-50 argument is annoying. The whole who's going to be submissive to who is annoying and pointless because I know what I'm looking for in life. Every woman in the world is not looking for the same thing I'm looking for. Right.
So what I do is those women who are not looking for what I'm looking for, I applaud them for looking for whatever they're looking for. I don't shame them. For example, they're like, I need a submissive wife who won't follow me. Okay, so... That's what you're looking for.
What if you have a woman here who is a 7, 8, 9-figure earner? You telling me I'm supposed to tell that woman she's supposed to submit to me. Right. And she can make more money. No, that woman's journey is different in life. Let her find someone. But it's also the same thing for a man, right? Women will say all the time, I want somebody 6'2", abs, make a lot of money, can fuck all night.
What if that nigga just wanted to be a homebody and take care of his kids? Mm-hmm. There's a woman for him. It may not be for you, but why shame him?
You see what I'm saying? Why try to mold him?
So here's the thing. I, and I've been called misogynistic because of this. Really? I believe it is the man's job to work. I believe it too. Well, I was called misogynistic because some women, and I had to agree with this segment. Some women are not made to have children.
Some women don't want to have children.
But you can't define their womanhood by saying if you don't have children for a man, you're not more of a woman. And I had to mature enough as a man to understand that, you know what, that's a valid fucking point. So for me, I personally feel for deval. I want to be able to support my wife. I want to be able to make all the money. And if she wants to make money, she can.
But if she don't, and she wants to be a homemaker, she could do that too. I was called misogynistic by some women who feel like I'm controlling my wife. But you know what I learned in that? I'm not for that woman.
A lot of people feel they got all the answers. You know when you realize you don't got all the answers? That's when you start to advance in life.
When you evolve. When you realize, you know what? I haven't arrived. The minute you think you arrived, that's when you really lost.
Yeah. The first thing I will say is that I wouldn't be the person I am if it wasn't for my wife and my partner.
When I was 18, 19 years old and I told Kadeen that I wanted to be an actor and I was going to use the NFL, She made my breakfasts. She did the stretches. When I separated my shoulder and I had to sleep sitting up.
She was sitting up.
That's what it was? It was the shoulder. Lex, I ain't fucking with you, man. I hurt my shoulder playing football, okay?
I got stats to prove it.
I'm going to fight Lex before I leave here. I'm going to fight Lex. All my Brooklynites, y'all know what the Brooklyn is, the brooker is. Y'all know what I'm talking about.
She was all of those things. She was there when I was training for the NFL. She was there. She helped me create. Okay, I'm a visual learner, right? You get playbooks. The playbooks sound like this, just so you know. Hop to trips right motion, scat right, 525, F-post swing, ready, break. Every word, every word has a meaning.
My wife made flashcards with every word in those things, and it had a definition. And that's how I practiced learning the plays.
You know what they say? She wasn't with me shooting in the gym.
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