Devorah Heitner

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 342: Dr. Devorah Heitner on Parenting Kids Who Are Growing Up in Public · 26 Sep 2023 podcast

And they're denying ideation.

That would be a situation where I think looking at their phone and pulling up posts where they made statements that imply otherwise, even if they're currently saying I'm okay, I'm okay, I don't need to go to the hospital.

If you can document that they have recently said otherwise, that would be a a situation where you could use that as evidence.

To get your kid admitted.

And I think there is going to be in that situation potentially a feeling of a breach, but keeping your kid alive becomes the most important thing in that moment.

Will your kid be happy that you went into their stuff?

Like, absolutely not.

But in that situation, it's worth it.

Another situation would be I talked to a parent who was pretty sure that their kid was

potentially being sexually exploited by an adult or an older kid.

And she did look at the at the device and she found out that her kid was being asked to send nudes to someone in another country and it was either an older kid or an adult.

And she was made the right choice to investigate further.

Her kid was like, No, no, no, that's not happening but she just there was enough evidence and it might sound confusing to parents 'cause they'll say, Well, everything seems fine, but how do I know that's not happening?

And I think we have to just really

use our judgment, but you don't wanna blow the sort of I would say like these big guns in a relationship, which it's a profound it will be seen, even in that case, you know, of the sexual exploitation, the kids still in the moment felt like it was a profound breach of trust.

You do not want to blow that on like

I wonder how they're doing, you know, they're not telling me who they sat with at lunch anymore like they used to when they were younger.

It really has to be like I'm pretty concerned, right?

And also you can also check in a limited way.

So the suicide prevention expert that I spoke with for my book, Jonathan Singer.

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