Dr. Alex Curmi
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first heard May 2026
last heard 13 Aug
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every day is not particularly romantic and it's difficult and it's hard and is there just something really nice in pretending that that's real when we all know it's not really real yeah no absolutely and i'd like to get into that soon when we talk about the the more the dark side of engaging with this stuff but one thing i thought of as i was listening to you was maybe a second layer of hypocrisy so if the first layer is the women behind this are all you know they're all boss babes
It's boss babes all the way down.
So that's layer one.
Layer two is, I guess, Tradwifery is kind of a luxury lifestyle.
It's a lifestyle for the rich and affluent.
Now, when we discussed the manosphere and looks maxing, we said, you know, there's definitely healthier versions of it.
So with the manosphere and looks maxing, it might be getting into personal fitness, learning social skills, things like that.
Even just learning about yourself psychologically, learning about men and women, you know, that stuff's useful.
And then there's a less healthy side, which we discussed on those podcasts.
And I guess it's the same with the trad wife thing.
You know, it might be just an idea of maybe I do need to make some alterations to my life.
Maybe cut back a little bit on work if I can.
Maybe do some things I enjoy.
And maybe I really enjoy some aspects of childcare.
Maybe I do really enjoy some aspects of keeping a beautiful home.
And that seems pretty fine.
I think you said some of your friends who watch this stuff, that's kind of, I guess you could call this the aesthetic layer.
They're engaging with more the aesthetic layer of this in a milder way.
What do you think are some of the darker aspects of engaging with this stuff?
One aspect I was really worried about is to what extent
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