Dr. Allan Schore

But the real key to a secure attachment is the ability to integrate both positive and negative emotions. So with a really good securely attached mother, when that baby is in a down state, literally, she can literally ride down with that baby and synchronize. And when it's an up state, she can really ride up with that state.

But the real key to a secure attachment is the ability to integrate both positive and negative emotions. So with a really good securely attached mother, when that baby is in a down state, literally, she can literally ride down with that baby and synchronize. And when it's an up state, she can really ride up with that state.

In the case of narcissistic personality disorders, let's say, for example, and I'm jumping here, we've got an insecure attachment. It can be an avoidant attachment or the other one, depends on what kind. There are two different types of narcissistic personality disorders.

In the case of narcissistic personality disorders, let's say, for example, and I'm jumping here, we've got an insecure attachment. It can be an avoidant attachment or the other one, depends on what kind. There are two different types of narcissistic personality disorders.

In the case of narcissistic personality disorders, let's say, for example, and I'm jumping here, we've got an insecure attachment. It can be an avoidant attachment or the other one, depends on what kind. There are two different types of narcissistic personality disorders.

No, no, but you can have two different types of narcissistic personality disorders, a vulnerable attachment and an egotistical attachment.

No, no, but you can have two different types of narcissistic personality disorders, a vulnerable attachment and an egotistical attachment.

No, no, but you can have two different types of narcissistic personality disorders, a vulnerable attachment and an egotistical attachment.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Yes, sound familiar, but also egotistical attachment. But my point out of that essentially here is the stresses in life are there and that the negative stresses are there, but we can learn from those negative stresses also, etc. And ultimately what we need to do is to be able to know how to integrate. If we can't integrate the positive and the negative, will end up with splitting.

Yes, sound familiar, but also egotistical attachment. But my point out of that essentially here is the stresses in life are there and that the negative stresses are there, but we can learn from those negative stresses also, etc. And ultimately what we need to do is to be able to know how to integrate. If we can't integrate the positive and the negative, will end up with splitting.

Yes, sound familiar, but also egotistical attachment. But my point out of that essentially here is the stresses in life are there and that the negative stresses are there, but we can learn from those negative stresses also, etc. And ultimately what we need to do is to be able to know how to integrate. If we can't integrate the positive and the negative, will end up with splitting.

You know the term.

You know the term.

You know the term.

Yeah, yeah. So essentially the splitting goes out externally, right? That person is all bad. I am all good. So now you have that splitting. You can't see anything of a goodness in that person at this point in time.

Yeah, yeah. So essentially the splitting goes out externally, right? That person is all bad. I am all good. So now you have that splitting. You can't see anything of a goodness in that person at this point in time.

Yeah, yeah. So essentially the splitting goes out externally, right? That person is all bad. I am all good. So now you have that splitting. You can't see anything of a goodness in that person at this point in time.