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Dr. Allan Schore

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
705 total appearances

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Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

It could also be that, all good. But you also have internally splitting. You have an internal split between a good self and a bad self. And internally, there's an internal object relationship that we all have as we internalize these external relationships so that there's a good self and a bad self, literally, and that they cannot be integrated, so to speak.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

It could also be that, all good. But you also have internally splitting. You have an internal split between a good self and a bad self. And internally, there's an internal object relationship that we all have as we internalize these external relationships so that there's a good self and a bad self, literally, and that they cannot be integrated, so to speak.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

It could also be that, all good. But you also have internally splitting. You have an internal split between a good self and a bad self. And internally, there's an internal object relationship that we all have as we internalize these external relationships so that there's a good self and a bad self, literally, and that they cannot be integrated, so to speak.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And that that part of me, I hate that part of me versus I love that part of me. Or in terms of borderline, usually what you see at the very beginning is that there's an over-idealization of the positive values of that therapist. And then there are some then stressors and misattunements and ruptures that are repair. And now all of a sudden what was totally good now becomes totally bad.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And that that part of me, I hate that part of me versus I love that part of me. Or in terms of borderline, usually what you see at the very beginning is that there's an over-idealization of the positive values of that therapist. And then there are some then stressors and misattunements and ruptures that are repair. And now all of a sudden what was totally good now becomes totally bad.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And that that part of me, I hate that part of me versus I love that part of me. Or in terms of borderline, usually what you see at the very beginning is that there's an over-idealization of the positive values of that therapist. And then there are some then stressors and misattunements and ruptures that are repair. And now all of a sudden what was totally good now becomes totally bad.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And so that could be, if there was not a strong therapeutic alliance, the point at which the person will drop out.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And so that could be, if there was not a strong therapeutic alliance, the point at which the person will drop out.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And so that could be, if there was not a strong therapeutic alliance, the point at which the person will drop out.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

I think it's a way of seeing the world. And the way of seeing the world essentially is very different from the left hemisphere and the right hemisphere. The right hemisphere sees the world through emotional relationships. So that can become a trait that can be really a hard and fast trait. Let me put it another way. In the case of narcissistic personality disorder, the baby is all good.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

I think it's a way of seeing the world. And the way of seeing the world essentially is very different from the left hemisphere and the right hemisphere. The right hemisphere sees the world through emotional relationships. So that can become a trait that can be really a hard and fast trait. Let me put it another way. In the case of narcissistic personality disorder, the baby is all good.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

I think it's a way of seeing the world. And the way of seeing the world essentially is very different from the left hemisphere and the right hemisphere. The right hemisphere sees the world through emotional relationships. So that can become a trait that can be really a hard and fast trait. Let me put it another way. In the case of narcissistic personality disorder, the baby is all good.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

The caregiver... primary caregiver is always thinking very positive about that infant. But when that infant now all of a sudden becomes depressed, the interactive regulation stops at that point in time.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

The caregiver... primary caregiver is always thinking very positive about that infant. But when that infant now all of a sudden becomes depressed, the interactive regulation stops at that point in time.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

The caregiver... primary caregiver is always thinking very positive about that infant. But when that infant now all of a sudden becomes depressed, the interactive regulation stops at that point in time.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So at that point in time... Now, everything is unconscious. If you and I are together... And there is a misattunement between us. What possibility, let's say in a dismissive attachment, is all of a sudden I will disengage. We got too close. And at that point in time, maybe I'm acting out my early attachment dynamics because what the baby is doing is expecting what the mother will do next.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So at that point in time... Now, everything is unconscious. If you and I are together... And there is a misattunement between us. What possibility, let's say in a dismissive attachment, is all of a sudden I will disengage. We got too close. And at that point in time, maybe I'm acting out my early attachment dynamics because what the baby is doing is expecting what the mother will do next.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So at that point in time... Now, everything is unconscious. If you and I are together... And there is a misattunement between us. What possibility, let's say in a dismissive attachment, is all of a sudden I will disengage. We got too close. And at that point in time, maybe I'm acting out my early attachment dynamics because what the baby is doing is expecting what the mother will do next.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And at that point in time, there's a misattunement like that. And so in the case of a dismissive personality, that person will emotionally disengage, okay? Become very abstract at that point in time. And at that point in time, I can't feel you. I hear what you're saying. And so... At all points in time, you have this situation of coming closer and moving apart, coming closer and moving apart.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And at that point in time, there's a misattunement like that. And so in the case of a dismissive personality, that person will emotionally disengage, okay? Become very abstract at that point in time. And at that point in time, I can't feel you. I hear what you're saying. And so... At all points in time, you have this situation of coming closer and moving apart, coming closer and moving apart.