Dr. Allan Schore

And at that point in time, there's a misattunement like that. And so in the case of a dismissive personality, that person will emotionally disengage, okay? Become very abstract at that point in time. And at that point in time, I can't feel you. I hear what you're saying. And so... At all points in time, you have this situation of coming closer and moving apart, coming closer and moving apart.

And this will be acted out in the therapeutic relationship also. And so that every time the person is, the anxious person is stressed, they'll come in closer to you now. Now they're more demanding about what they need from you. Look at the tone of my voice. while the insular avoidant now is now going to deactivate it. And at that point in time, my voice will now get flat.

And this will be acted out in the therapeutic relationship also. And so that every time the person is, the anxious person is stressed, they'll come in closer to you now. Now they're more demanding about what they need from you. Look at the tone of my voice. while the insular avoidant now is now going to deactivate it. And at that point in time, my voice will now get flat.

And this will be acted out in the therapeutic relationship also. And so that every time the person is, the anxious person is stressed, they'll come in closer to you now. Now they're more demanding about what they need from you. Look at the tone of my voice. while the insular avoidant now is now going to deactivate it. And at that point in time, my voice will now get flat.

You can't even hear the affective tone of my voice. So I'm telling you that we always pick up, at the level of our own physiology, how emotionally close or distant that person is at this point in time, especially at points of stress. whether I'm coming in or I'm moving out. Let me go back to this.

You can't even hear the affective tone of my voice. So I'm telling you that we always pick up, at the level of our own physiology, how emotionally close or distant that person is at this point in time, especially at points of stress. whether I'm coming in or I'm moving out. Let me go back to this.

You can't even hear the affective tone of my voice. So I'm telling you that we always pick up, at the level of our own physiology, how emotionally close or distant that person is at this point in time, especially at points of stress. whether I'm coming in or I'm moving out. Let me go back to this.

All of this is occurring at an implicit level, which is why you said something about reparenting, et cetera. Too much is on a conscious level there. If you really want to make these changes in a personality, they have to be changes in the right brain. And that's why all therapy now is looking into emotion. All therapy.

All of this is occurring at an implicit level, which is why you said something about reparenting, et cetera. Too much is on a conscious level there. If you really want to make these changes in a personality, they have to be changes in the right brain. And that's why all therapy now is looking into emotion. All therapy.

All of this is occurring at an implicit level, which is why you said something about reparenting, et cetera. Too much is on a conscious level there. If you really want to make these changes in a personality, they have to be changes in the right brain. And that's why all therapy now is looking into emotion. All therapy.

No matter what form of therapy, it's laying on top of the therapeutic relationship and emotion per se.

No matter what form of therapy, it's laying on top of the therapeutic relationship and emotion per se.

No matter what form of therapy, it's laying on top of the therapeutic relationship and emotion per se.

No, it's not impossible. No, it's not impossible. We all do grow, and, incidentally, our right brains do grow. But, again, the key here, I'm suggesting, the whole idea about interpersonal neurobiology. I was the editor of the Northern Serial Interpersonal, which is the two-person situation.

No, it's not impossible. No, it's not impossible. We all do grow, and, incidentally, our right brains do grow. But, again, the key here, I'm suggesting, the whole idea about interpersonal neurobiology. I was the editor of the Northern Serial Interpersonal, which is the two-person situation.

No, it's not impossible. No, it's not impossible. We all do grow, and, incidentally, our right brains do grow. But, again, the key here, I'm suggesting, the whole idea about interpersonal neurobiology. I was the editor of the Northern Serial Interpersonal, which is the two-person situation.

There has been too much of an emphasis on order regulation and not enough emphasis on interactive regulation. The real key to changing a right brain is finding people you can be close with, finding people you can be open with, finding people you can be vulnerable with, That literally you can show your shortcomings and opening yourself up to those people as they open up to you.

There has been too much of an emphasis on order regulation and not enough emphasis on interactive regulation. The real key to changing a right brain is finding people you can be close with, finding people you can be open with, finding people you can be vulnerable with, That literally you can show your shortcomings and opening yourself up to those people as they open up to you.

There has been too much of an emphasis on order regulation and not enough emphasis on interactive regulation. The real key to changing a right brain is finding people you can be close with, finding people you can be open with, finding people you can be vulnerable with, That literally you can show your shortcomings and opening yourself up to those people as they open up to you.

It's literally to form that right brain to right brain communication system with someone else.