Dr. Allison Anderson

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523 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Sep 2025 last heard 30 Sep

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And so I do hear from a lot of my ladies who are dating how frustrating it is to feel like they're just there, you know, putting their profile out into the void with no response, right?
But what I always say is that, first of all, if you're dating, most likely you're looking for one person.
I mean, there are exceptions to that of people who would like to have a different type of a relationship set up.
But most people and all of the women that I work with are wanting to just find their one partner.
So you only need to find one person.
You don't need to have a million men interested in you.
You're just looking for one.
So first of all, like, don't get so caught up in, you know, having this huge quantity of people talking to you.
But the other part of that is, you know, I know it can be frustrating and it requires some amount of just patience and like trust in the process and belief in the process.
But you...
If you try to push forward and pursue and seek out and create all these conversations and initiate things with men on the apps or people that you want to date on the apps, yeah, that might get you into more conversations, but it's probably not going to find you the kind of person that you actually want to be with.
If you want someone who will pursue you and who will initiate things with you,
Even if it seems like it takes a really long time and a lot of empty, you know, dead end conversations or lack of conversations on the apps.
If you want somebody who's going to pursue you and step up in those ways, then you have to give them space to do that.
So even though it might seem like, oh, nobody's reaching out, nobody's doing this.
I should tweak my profile.
I should go on a different app.
I should message people.
Here, let me just start liking everybody just to cast a wide net.
You don't need to do that because your person who's going to step forward and the people, it's not just going to be one person initially, probably the people who are going to step forward need to have space to be able to do that.
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